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I have a dilema...

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uk_man_31
norwich, Norfolk, England UK
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:08 PM CST
ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...
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PILIPALA
Cardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:12 PM CST
uk_man_31 wrote:
ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...




Think you should end it Hun a clean break is better than a long drawn out break. AS that hurts more
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crotalus_p
Rush , Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:12 PM CST
Finish it now , better the healing begin now than later , professor
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:13 PM CST
tell her. I had to do the same thing just recently.

I just turned to her and said"...I know how you feel about me...but I don't love you!"


Just tell her the truth!!
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Bowie
winter haven, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:14 PM CST
have you begun to like her more than when you first started? Do you see yourself with her down the road?
If the answer is no, then I think you know what to do.
Good luckhandshake
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Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:14 PM CST
PILIPALA wrote:
Think you should end it Hun a clean break is better than a long drawn out break. AS that hurts more


I agree... dont let it go on too long... just be honest and tell her u dont feel the same... its tough thing to have to do but better now than down the line.... hug
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:14 PM CST
Helloo Dom! wave

Tell her ASAP.. if you don't think it's going to happen.

Don't let it drag on and make it a million times worse.

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horselady5
Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:14 PM CST
Very simple just come right out and tell her to her face that you're not in love with you and to stop the gifts.

It sounds to me like she's trying to buy your love.


uk_man_31 wrote:
ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...
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mastic55
Long Island, New York USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:16 PM CST
Before you break it off try to get a set of spinning rims....
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bodleing
Greater Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:16 PM CST
Lsten to Paul Simon

and pick one of the fifty ways!!!



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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:16 PM CST
mastic55 wrote:
Before you break it off try to get a set of spinning rims....


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horselady5
Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:16 PM CST
I left out her.D'oh!
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Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:16 PM CST
I definately agree with everyone else.
You have to be honest with her.
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roseofsharon
Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:17 PM CST
uk_man_31 wrote:
ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...


Why are you asking? You know what to do... if you don't, you shouldn't be dating, you're not old enough!!
D'oh!

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:17 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
Helloo Dom!

Tell her ASAP.. if you don't think it's going to happen.

Don't let it drag on and make it a million times worse.



applause applause applause


You're here!


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mastic55
Long Island, New York USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:18 PM CST
all joking aside it easy to say just tell the truth, but it could be hard sometimes.....try to think it out and do whats best for you..
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:18 PM CST
lusciousmile wrote:
You're here!


hahaha.. I had a bath.. went to bed.. read .. then got out to ermm 'powder my nose' snooty ... and got sidetracked.. lol


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Tater
springfield, Illinois USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:19 PM CST
Bowie wrote:
have you begun to like her more than when you first started? Do you see yourself with her down the road?
If the answer is no, then I think you know what to do.
Good luck



I agree with what everyone has said on this thread, But this one is what you have to ask yourself.... Good luck man.handshake
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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:20 PM CST
uk_man_31 wrote:
ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...



uk_man_31 wrote:
ok Ive been seeing this lady for what 6 weeks, she has fallen in love with me and I havent with her... Shes always buying me stuff I have asked her to stop... Now the thing is I have to chill this out a bit or finish it and I dont know what to do or how to do it any ideas...


confused


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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 6:33 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
hahaha.. I had a bath.. went to bed.. read .. then got out to ermm 'powder my nose' ... and got sidetracked.. lol



It's late, even there. snooty



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