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Really good first date. FANTASTIC good night kiss. He calls me the next day to confirm another date for ... today. Well, no phone call before today ... and today rolled by with no contact at all ... BUT I know that he's online. So what am I supposed to think?

I really hate mixed/confusing/changing messages!

*sigh*

DO you want an "OPINION"??????? Turn around and walk the other way. "MOST" of us are way to old to play childish games.

Now, in my case, I am old and senile so I would have a good excuse.. (not really)...

I'd be annoyed to say the least. if he just plain forgot and apologizes them maybe there's hope.


If he's been giving you mixed messages on a regular basis, then maybe he needs his space.....a lot of it.




Most everyone has more patience than I do. If it were me, I'd turn 'em loose and never answer his mixed ass messages again.

i hope it turns out alright for ya

Sounds like he's playing childish games like someone else said.

If it was me I'd write him off as a bad debt.

JMO

He's playing games or is a player...either way...life's too short to sit..wait and wonder...NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Damn! That's what my gut was telling me. I just needed confirmation. Back to square one.

very sorry to hear that,,,his loss...it happened to me once on my birthday,,,a few years back,,no call ,,no nothing,,I say run not "walk" away from that one.
good luck either way you go
;-}

Is the same guy as last time or a different one

"ALWAYS", always, always, listen to your gut...

You mean the guy I was drinking the double tequila for? Yep, that was him. Damn waste of good tequila, too.

Do him...then dump him...




...only kidding...heck, why ask me, I dunno....?


...ok, I do...



...just dump him, cos I think he's already dumped ya....



JMO

This happened on your birthday?!? That's just RUDE! What an awful thing to do someone on a birthday!

Thanks for the advice. I've just metaphorically bootkicked this guy to the curb.

One tequila, two tequila, 3 tequila floor...

Too bad I don't have any tequila. Or any alcohol at all.

WAIT! I have kahlua!

Better than nothing.

yeah,,I even changed my plans as she wanted to go out, talked two days before,,,"poof" nothing! some people have no soul,,,,seems that way to me.

Um ... no, I think I'll pass. But thanks for the suggestion.

Here ... have some Kahlua.

sure , thanks,,,, hope ya find a keeper,,me, I have struck out "one" too many times. Everything is very different somehow...anyway, cheers

Now you're scaring me. Most of the people around my age say that they don't want to get into the "whole dating scene" again. Well, I'm totally new to dating. In my younger years, I dove straight into several long-term relationships and skipped the dating phase entirely. I guess I'm doing this backwards, but it sounds ... well, scary ... like I have to be prepared for high frustration levels. Not fun.

hi sienne

greg behrendt would agree with me when i tell you to just walk away...walk away hun.

cut your losses and don't waste your time...

Don't let the "honeys" and the "babys" fool you. His sweet nothings are exactly that. They are much easier to say than "I'm just not that into you." Remember, actions speak louder than, "There's no cell reception where I am right now."

Calling when you say you're going to call is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never gonna have a house, baby. And it's cold outside.

hope you're okay...