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So, you're in the range of possibility (perversibility? ) then, aren't you...?

Who?

but its more about relating on the soul level than about the age level surely?

I think many men don't want a woman that remind them of their ex wife etc. Aesthetics are more important to them too so a young body is preferable to a sagging one. Sometimes younger women are more malliable and less challenging than older ones in a man's thinking.

Just possibilities.........

What about guys that put o i dont know say 40-45 when they are 39 (and looking gorgeous for it ) I was recently told it was off putting that my profile had 18-99

please dont i beg you

Hmmmmmmmm.

ohhh nice pic claayer, look like a little devil, a cute one. I agree, when they, the men post they are looking from 25 and up i am put off, well at least i was, now i am with someone that is four years older than me, if this dosen't work i am going younger most deff.

oooooooooSNAP

the man is nothing if not perceptive

Quite possibly...











Regarding age (so as not to hijack, even more), I can't see myself dating a man young enough to be my son, or a man old enough to be my great-grandfather, as an example.

I need to be able to relate, on various levels...

I am sorry for your pain, i will pray it stops.

Given that your only 34 there is a distinct possibility that dating some one your son’s age may be illegal , seriously tho how much younger than your self would you go ??

well

im now thinking about a thread recently speaking to
what the comment is on a womans profile in relation to her kids

might mean-

i dunno-ive been online a loooong time-
ive been in conversation w/ a number of men over the years who didnt think about the age thing on the profile...
didnt fill it out (the default is 18-99)

its hard being judged on these profile choices
but what choices do we have initially?
im sure ppl see kids or something else and just pass me by

thank goodness for the forums.

we can chat and see each other and maybe broaden our willingnesses

I have plans on having more children, so I try to keep it my age or under but most women around my age do not want children.

Not all men perfer women of there own age. I am always having to tell those guys I am not interested... Anyone a few years younger than me I tell them thanks but No thanks unless they have had kids and been through the marriage shit...

Can I correct something though... this is not to be rude... But I maybe wrong but, isn't Boy Toy ?

And the reasoning for my age this is... I dont' want any more damn Boy Toys... its to heart wrenching when you fall for them Fkrs LOL

Anyhow .... I think men that don't want to date women older then them it has to be a self image thing... Most younger guys like older women. Because we are more experienced in what there looking for lol

On the other hand Men that don't want an older woman may want to go for someone of his own age or younger because of where they are at in life ... don't you think? I mean common some of us older woman are Hot Babes compared to some of those younger Chicks :)

Anyhow thats my story and I am sticking to it !

i have no clue what you are talking abut, i dont check males profiles

but i have realized the females are looking some how in the range you are talking

a few are open to date guys older than them
a few wants only guys younger than them

my case some one around my age (+/-5)

your case, well it will be better to edit your profile (47-99) as it does not match what you have just say you are opne to some one 7 years younger (althought you are opne to some one as ols as your dad)

a woman at the age of forty has a chance of something being wrong mentally with the child she could bear so you might want to keep that in mind, and women along the lines of 35 are knowing this, maybe that has something to do with it, just a thought.

ahhh, good point Shadow, I hadnt thought of that one - thanks

I understand that totally

nah - it just means I have a sense of humour Alex

Ah, yes - but only a distinct possibility, presuming that I didn't start at a very young & tender age.





Seriously, I prefer not to go younger. Though I don't completely rule out going a tad bit younger than myself...


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