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I'm flexable when it comes to age. A little older, or a little younger. I don't care

That sounds beautiful. Is it real though? Does that really happen or is it some idealistic thing we think will happen?

Thanks Ginger

i said what i had to say regarding to the topic

now we are in the chit-chat you like in the threads

the best to do is not to adress me when you are not interested in my answer

but what can i expect from some one that is not thruthfull to herself

one request in a thread, a diferent one in the profile

it real happens in real life

but on the internet dating, when we are able to see what are the other request, we will avoid to contact the one we might be interested because we know we do not meet her criteria (it is stated in her profile)

i belive if we want to have all the doors open,(as to leet that kind of love to spark and bloosom) then we shuld not have too many requirement

the age requiremnt is another one of several, like smoking, wanting kids etc

As we can see from some of the posts in here age doesn't improve some things

it can sure deepen the bitterness of some - without a doubt

Aspergers springs to mind........

why do you twist things

expresing my view point is not looking for someting bad about women

if you want to know what i tink abut women, look at a thread were that is the topic

in case you need one, check the folowing thread
Is it ''cool'' to make jokes about .....
i belive it is in page 3 of the forums
my post i belive is in second page

To get back on topic. One of the things I have found is a bit like B was saying, even sometimes when you have the age in common and all the social similarities in common, you still didn't experience it the same way or see it from the same angle and so it doesn't matter. For instance woodstock happened in my time but I wasn't in America and how it impacted people in Ireland was different because our culture was different so soeone of the same age wouldn't necessarily have the same things in common.

Can't be arsed. Your views mean that little to me.

happens to me ... .. an open mind will find much more than a closed one.

Idealistically I have always believed it was possible until recently. I think age and experience makes a difference to beliefs. If it never happens thenyou beging to believe it maybe isn't possible except in your imagination or something you have gleaned from fairy tales.

Well I'm dating a guy 6 years younger right now...for the first time...I have never dated that much younger than I am.......I have dated older men for the most part......BUT he also already has kids of his own...now someone that wants a family...BUT has no kids...is a no no to me because I am done having mine....I am trying to remain open minded and we are at the same maturity level and have a lot in common...so that makes it that much better!!!!!!!!!

congrats on this one lady shell, say while i am on your posts, could you possibly tell me what the answer yes is too? i think i know but would like to be sure

Sure darlin...that I will be meeting him when he gets to Toronto on the 22...he will be there for a month!!!!!!!!!!!


Remember I hadn't given him an answer yet?????????

I think i had had a little wine that night, i do remember now that you have mentioned it though, i am happy something is working for you, it does take patience though, sometimes a lot of it, got any for me?

I'd like to date a woman about 30 years older than me. Of course, with that...she'd have to be rich (and maybe on a respirator.

That's what boxing ourself in is all about. I think we chatted about this before. A person who wants to be thought of as demure say, will gravitate to posts and comments that have a demure tone, saying something internally(subconsciously) like , "hey thats me "and will respond in a way that reaffirms that image, effectively placing another block in their wall of demureness.

Open your mind to not so much fairy tales but more, possibilites of who you can be and the blocks tumble away. I see women mostly, holding on to their need to appear to have some decorum, either sensually or verbally, they won't step over that line because doing so removes the blocks that they defined themselves with. I'm not saying we need to go hog wild, just open up to more things that we can be as a person. So what if someone gets the impression you're not demure? You get to make up who your are every moment of your life, so make it fanciful, worth living and someone you can enjoy outside your box..

This moron who is buggin everyone has so many blocks in his wall that he'll never see the light of day .. and that too can happen to us, if we keep adding blocks that we think we need to define us with.

Two million cells in our body change daily, the landscape of the planet undergoes changes at a phenominal rate evry secioond and here some humans still hang on to their little box, unwilling to change anything... to even think diferently about who they are or more importantly can be... Love dont work in a rut and it surely knows no bounds.

age may just be your rut... so many bricks after so many years... hire a muscle guy with a jack hammer and get to work!!

Well we're taking things slow...Just enjoying the moment for now...so anything above that remains to be seen after we meet...ummmmmmmm well luckily I haven't had to be too patient he was already coming here to Toronto before we started talking...so I didn't have to wait long....so you can have what's left of my patience....