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gingerb: WB Trish, sorry for getting sidetracked.

StressFree: Hey BN and Trish

Life is good...great right now...I really do love California...gosh the sea and weather here... and some women actually get me...only on the west coast...

LadyBtyBoop: I would like to interject here, if I may. You see, I am one of the "older" women. I am 61, but to me, it's just a number. I spent 20 years of marriage with a man that is 19 years younger than I. And, now that I am on these dating sites, it is wierd how, so many times, a younger man, and I am talking in their 20's, 30's and 40's, will contact me. I, personally, find men my age, and older, are a turn off to me, as they act "old", and I may be older, but that is just a number to me. I think in this day and age, age should not be such a big thing. Why is it, that an old man, can carry on with a young woman, and they say "Way to go." but if I am with a younger man, I am called a "cougar." And, I am supposed to act my age. Well, I am not old, I am just chronilogically challenged! And, I am not giving up on having some fun, as long as I feel like it!

trish123: How much longer are you away for? Id love to see that Californian coastline - one day...........

trish123: Hey Ginger haha, sidetrack all you like - it all adds grist to the mill

trish123: Ive noticed when looking at guys profiles that quite a few of you still prefer to go for nobody older than themselves and in some cases up to maybe 5 or so yrs younger - whats this about? My own preference is sort of the same age give or take maybe 5 yrs or so - Im not into the toy boy thing but am just trying to understand this attitude of 'definitely not older'

BnaturAl: haha, we dint sidetrack we just expanded on the anal theme of agists as per the OP

shipoker55: I agree 100%

gingerb: I once went out with a 19 yr old on a date and it was a lot of fun. I thought he was 27 though. He looked it. I was 41 at the time.

shipoker55: hi Trish It's really surprising how many younger women have e-mailed me. I tell them I am too old for them. They say they like older men. Then I have to be rude and say "..I don't like younger women"

StressFree: Ok, tell us more about this...like the sexing part...and the connection part. Was the age not that big of a factor cause this dude was a bit wise beyond his years? Or were you just using him for some excercise

StressFree: So you have a problem with the 20 years olds too? lol

gingerb: He was definitely wise beyond his years. Interesting, fit, agile, intellignet, fun generally.

gingerb: I once went out with a 19 yr old on a date and it was a lot of fun. I thought he was 27 though. He looked it. I was 41 at the time.

StressFree: Why did you two split up?

gingerb: I found out her he was 19.............

gingerb: I once went out with a 19 yr old on a date and it was a lot of fun. I thought he was 27 though. He looked it. I was 41 at the time.