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You don't have to be married bell to know that marriage is something valuable to you...Just don't pull a Liz when you do...Trust me one husband is quite enough......and yes we should be appreciated for our strength....by ourselves and each other if nobody else.....

What gives with them trying to get us back......

Not rude at all....my watering can is in the queue right next to yours.....

as you wish

i hope there are some nice hot men reading this lol... and realise how cool we are and that they cant live without us lol....

ok ok so im dreaming a bit but hey a girl can dream.............

If they are big enough arseholes to cheat and treat us like crap...they are big enough arseholes to think they deserve us when they're done!!!!!!!!!!







I don't think soooooooooooooo.......

Dream on girl......it's fun to dream......

Oh there big enough........

you are right, i belive no ones wanted the diorce and tried their best to have a good marriage

but please dont generalize

i was not the idiot
she was not the idiot

i tried for one year
she tried for one year

then we split

we were friends before
we remained friends after

not all men, not all women

in our case there was no infidelity from any part, not always infidelity is the reazon for the divorce

Right and I took much pleasure in saying..NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!

Well of course I didn't mean everyone....I meant the cases that I know about....of infidelity etc...where it led to divorce...not mutual....but out of sheer idiocy on the husbands part!!!!!!!!!!

that show we all are here looking for some oportunity in life

sure
i would guess we all have

i discovered i have a habit of really believing is someones 'potential'

i discovered there was a part of it that was ego on my part...
wanting to be there 10 yrs later and be able to say
'look-look at this-i hung in there and look-things are great'

i dunno -hard to explain
but its somethin i do try to be real careful about today
staying in reality-and staying in today

a wonderful friend told me-when things are getting serious-ask yourself

can i live with them as they are today-forever

thats a heavy disqualifier

people are who they are-and if i cant be w/ em w/out puttin my sticky lil fingers into the mix-to make them better-
i need to get away from them
for both our sakes

so you see-here i sit-alone

im more scared of my own self than 'him'
i have some bad habits

the past is the past for a reason

i tried to go back twice-2 different relationships

when its broken its usually too broken...

i dont like to repeat myself posting the same in diferent threads besides my usual sayings

but i will do one of those exceptions i aloud to myself

this is what i wrote regarding to females in another thread



dont run the guys away
it is already hard for as to undertand each others (males to females)
to make it harder here we have only words on a screen, no emotions at all, and emoticons not always are good
try to build bridge of comunications, instead of picking on the guys
(the same aplay to guys too, it is not only a mater of gender)

It's very broken and I am glad about that now......but I have learned so much from it......i'm in a better place today....

it is like this always and all the times....... up and down

Oh yeah, I think everyone with a heart has done that. The thing is, the older and wiser and closer to the end of my life I get, the less of it I'm willing to waste on something that ain't working and can't be fixed. Love is not supposed to be that hard!

oh yeah........and it took me 22 years to wise up.........slow learner