Posted: Jul 12, 2008, 1:32 PM CST
He was a neurotic for years.He was anxious and depressed and selfish.Everyone kept telling him to change.
He resented them,and agreed with them,and he wanted to change,but simly couldn't,no matter how hard he tried.
What hurt the most was that,like the others,his best friend kept insisting the he change.So he felt powerless and trapped.
Then,one day,his best friend said to him, ''Don't CHANGE.I love you just the way you are.''
Those were music to his ears,''Don't CHANGE,Don't CHANGE.Don't CHANGE....I love you as you are.''
He relaxed.He came alive.And suddenly CHANGED!
Now he knew that he couldn't really change until he found someone who would love him whether he CHANGED or not.