For the most part, we as men tend to think that it's a sign of weekness to show kindness and compassion towards someone, and it really gets us in trouble being that way in relationships, as for me, I have no problem showing a lady just how much she means, of course I don't have a lady to show that to right now, but if I did, she would never have to question how I felt about her..
Just to cover a little something else too, for those that have been hurt and say they are looking, but are scared to really commit themselves to another relationship
The most emotional time in my life, was when I watched my mother die, and my girlfriend broke up with me two months later, I was completely devastated.. I gotta tell ya, I never knew any human being could withstand or endure the kind of emotional pain I went through during that time, and all of my so called friends ran off, except for one..
Alicen (roseofsharon) was the only friend that stayed by me during the most horrible and hurtful time in my life, I tell ya, if it wasn't for her contacting me every morning, I truly believe I would have died of a broken heart, it was that bad.. Btw, I can't thank you enough for helping me through that horrible time Alicen, I really don't know what I would have done without you..
My point is though, I did make it through with some help, and I had to ask myself, is it possible for me to begin again? Should I try to begin another relationship? Should I risk being hurt again? I considered all of those things, and the answer I came up with is that even if I have to go through more pain to eventually find the one that's right for me, it's worth it.. and what doesn't kill us makes us stronger..
Please forgive the long post..