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Annnnd,,,AS USUAL
It turns into one big party at the end.

Happy Birthday!!

Certainly they dont have to worry about nail polish , waxing , heels and ohh the gossip

yeah

They do when they have to pay for it.

I do understand what you are saying. We are after the same
things, never said that. But the way we get to and handle what
we are after is different is all. Talking about the differences in the
way we communicate our feelings, thoughts etc. We can still be
after the same things.

Night all...

I do agree.. that they are after the same end result (usually).. but I do think men and women are very different in their approaches.. as a rule anyway.. Men like you chaps on this thread.. are in the minority I think. The majority of men don't like talking about feeling and emotions.. and struggle to understand their own let alone a womens. imo.

night night

I am thinking like Kid said we all want the same things.

And Hugs made this lovely point in the beginning .. that if many men would be more communicative and if women would adjust and no complain at times when they werent .. we could compromise that way..

Thats so cool.

But .. Maybe its too bright to do on a daily basis ..

I think a lot do, but they're shot down or ridiculed for trying.

Oh well, sucks that is the status quo.....carry on.

Yes that too...

Could live without the waxing for sure...
(Ouch)

Night Ladies...

There is a medical term for that..Adhd

there are also medications to help control it

But I can do laundry, cook a meal and clean house at the same time.

but I refuse to paint my nails.

If it's any consolation I'm with you. People are individuals whether male of female and although brain size and usage may appear different, that has been proven recently not to be true. Brain size is all about body size. The capabilities for every kind of thought and emotion are equally in both.

Conditioning, nurture as opposed to nature is responsible for the myths about men and women being different, perpetuated by the media and how they want us to think.

When it comes right down to it we all laugh cry at the same things, get the groceries, complain about money, use it the same ways, even sexual appetites are the same overall. There will aways be the exceptions, but generally that is down to background and nurture again and to the fact that we are individuals with different sets of experiences.

well that might just be the people they surround themselves with or the partners they choose.

I have a male married friend.. who is very 'in touch' with his feelings.. he is very kind and thoughtful.. but his wife is a COW.. she picks at him constantly for his feelings.. In that situation, the boot is definitely on the other foot... as she would never talk about her feelings, just shouts and complains a lot. So sometimes is just 'people'.

Oddly enough, I think I mentioned that before.

but I did say *sometimes*

These are great points,well said and concise.



In one of the books i've read on relationships.Learning to argue lovingly is an important chapter.

I am in for a little break ...

ermm .. I had a wonderful , enllightening and rather emotional()
morning ..



Thanks people

Just keep pulling back in I see...


I thought it was OCD,

A condition characterized by recurrent, repetitive thoughts (obsessions), behaviors (compulsions), or a combination of both.

I suddenly feel the need to do something, could paint them for ya.