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aye aye aye

Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 12:30 PM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
Not valleygirl now..changed her name


wave

yes, I've just noticed :) girls mature to women

experience remains, though
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Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 12:41 PM CST
crystal_2010 wrote:
what do you do when you have a guy that you think you really like...and along comes another guy who u also think u like...if u need details...i shall give some :-)


I would go out with both (not at the same time, obviously, though it would sure save time! laugh)

Just because I think I "like" someone, doesn't mean anything is going to work out between us, so why waste a chance if there's someone else in sight too. Until we've both made a commitment to each other, I reserve the right to go out with other guys too. Life is too short to focus on just one person before anything is really clear...
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 12:42 PM CST
laura225 wrote:
yes, I've just noticed :) girls mature to women

experience remains, though

so truewave
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Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 7:23 PM CST
laura225 wrote:
poor confused friend

There is this very experienced in such matters girl on CS...

her username, I think, is valeygirl. Hope she comes along with lots of advice... Why doesn't she go on a few dates with each of them (they are not exclusive yet?) and I can guarantee you - in a short while she will have her answer.



the first guy and my friend are exclusive...but along comes this guy and she doesn't know if she shud be exclusive anymore... :-)....u see how complicated i make things?
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 7:50 PM CST
Rodles wrote:
its not about control its about choice and behaviour


BS!

You're allowed to like more than one person at a time. Till you're involved and exclusive, why limit yourself? That's what dating was invented for! Jeez! D'oh! grin
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kkitty
Minnesota USA
Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 7:53 PM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
BS!

You're allowed to like more than one person at a time. Till you're involved and exclusive, why limit yourself? That's what dating was invented for! Jeez!

yes I am jealous
all I can say is some gals have all the luck conversing
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 8:01 PM CST
kkitty wrote:
yes I am jealous
all I can say is some gals have all the luck
Yeah me too. I'm just speaking hypothetically! D'oh! grin
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Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 10:01 PM CST
crystal_2010 wrote:
the first guy and my friend are exclusive...but along comes this guy and she doesn't know if she shud be exclusive anymore... :-)....u see how complicated i make things?


comfort you don't complicate things - this kind of complications is as old as world itself :)


confused exclusive, huh?.. dunno I did my share of this "exclusive s**t" mistakes. Is "she" married? engaged? noooo...? then like someone else said "that's why it's called dating" It's really better to find out if this 2nd man is right for you than have doubts and 2nd thoughts and maybe even regrets in a future. I might be wrong, but if she was really in love, she wouldn't even notice someone else, would she? sad flower

Just be smart... (and subtle) - that's the kind of advice that should come from your own heart, not from anybody else .
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 10:06 PM CST
Did You Ever Have To Make Up Your Mind....Louvin Spoonful
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 10:11 PM CST
laura225 wrote:
It's really better to find out if this 2nd man is right for you than have doubts and 2nd thoughts and maybe even regrets in a future. I might be wrong, but if she was really in love, she wouldn't even notice someone else, would she?
Yep, if someone had told me that I wouldn't have married my first husband. But then I wouldn't have had my daughter, and my granddaughter and ...

Regrets are for idiots.

But, listen to us old idiots, ya might keep from having to make a few mistakes of your own along the way. grin
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Doose
Buffalo, New York USA
Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 2:29 PM CST
I NEED MORE DETAILS
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