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I was in a club recently and approached a nice girl to strike up a conversation to which i was told "Go away ugly" i know you should not take stuff like that to heart, but it really hurt and kinda messed me up. I was finally starting to feel confident in myself for the first time in my life

Oh Dear...Dont let that do anything to ur confidents..

She is the one that has issues...

people like that are not worth worrying about...

Love urself

then others will also...

Very bad to the woman that said that...Pls look in the mirror

Wow, i agree with kissmedeeply- you are not the one with the problem- that 'woman' is!! i think yu had a lucky escape( though not the fact that she hurt your feelings)- someone who would say that to another person, even if (and you're def not!) the ugliest person in the world, has a deep probl;em, and should be steered well clear of. don't let it get you down, there are a lot of lovely people out there- hope your next attempt, you meet one of them

Awwwwww Danny.......don't listen to what the girl said to you.....

Tks for giving ur advice...

It will help him i am sure if more of us will just try to give a little advice and it will go a long way

Sorry to hear that happened to you, Danny. Unfortunately when you're a guy, you have to have a thick skin. For every ten girls you meet, chances are at least half of them are going to turn you down. But you can't just give up. Whats the expression of getting back on the horse?
I think especially in nightclubs, women are more picky.

Oh and another thing, just remember.....Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She may not have been attracted to you but it doesn't mean other girls won't be. Good luck

Nothing I can really say that hasn't already been said, all wonderful words of advice...

BUT, I think your a hottie

Not a nice girl.

I can't believe how cruel some people are. Ignore and realise that this person is not worthy of your or anybody's attention

no, not at all

I know a couple of responses....but can't share them on CS.


Don't let the little sh-t get to ya... I'd say someone else has the problem.


JMO

Me either. I hate rudeness and ignorance in a person

If she had been drinking then I would guess it is just false bravado and the drink talking. Alcohol loosens the tongue and she may not have been so rude if sober.

ahh don't let it get you down, i would make a joke outta it, because if a gal calls you that then you know her personality is just that UGLY

yeah!! they have done face transplants( not that you need one- look good to me!) but haven't read any research on personality transplants yet!! trust me, if they had them, i may still be married!!

danny you are a great looking guy and its her loss

good post...

Pah! Danny... try to put it to oneside.. You are clearly not ugly..

and she is clearly a b*tch.

>>>>

I was hoping this thread was going to be about how some lady had a hard time taking your huge....

Anways, don't worry about what happened....it happens and just pick up yourself and believe in yourself.