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Hiya.... I think the question in itself and the Poll kinda answers the question.... good looking people often have a tough time finding someone cause people automatically judge them as being vacuous or full of themselves or they sometimes feel intimidated by them.... I have a few friends like this and in a way they have a worse time meeting guys... one common problem also, is that the guy (or girl) is so focused on the attraction that either they are not bothered to get to know the person or they have completely misjudged them.. one friend of mine (Kat)has been having a terrible time of it with men and she is stunning (legs worthy of an advert) and really intelligent and elegant..but at the same time she is a lovely sincere person.. yet she has been treated sooo badly.. mind boggles JMV

yes ..

Exactly

Ditto

yup.

certainly not "very attractive sigle" here Just here for the ride!!

Yes unfortunatly some people do use their good looks to take advantage in a negative way but I don't think just because your good looking it means your a snob or any other negative aspect.

I know some people who are very good looking and single and its because they chose to be and are careful in what they are looking for in someone.

Just my humble opinion of course.

True....I have known some gorgeous women who seem to have miserable experiences in relationships....their beauty seems to somehow make their relationships so complicated... so yes, very good-looking people can be very unlucky in love....in many cases their looks actually are a curse...because men are continually after them for the wrong reasons....

Also people are attracted to them for the wrong reasons ... it's in fact difficult because often they attract very superficial people (who think they are god's gift to the other gender) and who are in lust with them and don't match the the intelligence/depth of character of the good looking person. A lot of men run a mile from a woman who is good looking, is intelligent AND had character because they feel they are no match or they don't want "competition". And they certainly won't be approached by people who have low self-esteem as they would be affraid "to lose her/him" ...

Sorry Lago!!! Was writing my post while you posted yours!!!!

That's ok!!!...we seem to be bumping into each other all over the place tonite....:-))

I agree with Lagoona and Flower .. to have a relationship just the " you are s beautiful " wont do .. theres got to be more ..

I'd really like to know though why such negative poll options where put up as an option, if your attractive and single.

.... and some have put their real (vs. fake) pics on their profile just to show what they're like, and some people assume they're sooooooo outrageously beautiful...... And then you get questions like "how come you're so beautiful and still single"? It makes me want to ask them in turn - do you really think that looks are EVERYTHING? do you really think it's that EASY to find your soulmate, beautiful or not?

Its like a piece of cake ..

Some may think ur beautiful and others may not

In the eye of the beholder...

but there is so much more then beauty...

What about ones Mind...

How it works...thinks...reacts to certain things...

If we all stand on beauty..and beauty alone...

There i said it key word ALONE...

THAT IS WHAT WE WOULD HAVE IN COMMON

"There is certainly no absolute standard of beauty. That precisely is what makes its pursuit so interesting."
-John Kenneth Galbraith

hmmmmmmmmmmm negative
well positive I just wanted to see what some are thinking as I sometimes am very curious when a very attractive man is single and to be honest I have a hard time believing that such attractive people are truly alone.
I also would like to add on a positive note that by attractive it could be in many different varieties such as the eye of the beholder

Too me the below options are negative

# looking for booty call
# not really them in the picture
# too stuck up
# just playing with your heart
# mind games
# just here for friends
# clueless they look so good
# tease
# all looks and no personality
# any others please do tell

I also would like to add on a positive note that by attractive it could be in many different varieties such as the eye of the beholder I personally dont see many options pointing out beauty what I see is options which attach it.

this is why I also asked for any others. and it is a poll not a statement