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Ohhhh how I would love a new model......R2D2......with all the specifications....

Love that lol That is great and thanks for sharing!

Although I do not believe in perfection. No one is perfect no matter what you think. Everyone has faults and has done mistakes one way or another and I think that with faults and those mistakes it is a way for us to learn from them and it teaches us experience for the next round coming our way whatever it may be.

I have no intentions and expectations of someone but I won't settle for less either!

Actually, that isn't asking a whole lot.

Who doesn't want those things out of a partner?

Well i have read threw everyones opinion and ship i have to say i agree with you.... my late mother used to say " you can ask no more of someone than to do their best" and to strive for perfection is setting yourself up 4 a fall.... to strive to be the best you can be and achieve it.. is perfect.... to you... to set out to do something to the best of your ability and actually succeed at it... u can ask for no more perfection than that... well i wouldnt anyway......... JMO

However...

If you look deeper into that post, what do we see the woman saying?

Me. Me. Me.

And what, pray tell, is SHE willing to offer HIM?

Seriously though I find that all really artificial. Gawd knows the day I become perfect myself I'll look for perfection in a partner then. That day won't come though no-one is perfect and I really wouldn't want it that way. Sometimes its the differences that can be a funny positive thing also.

Hey......But i'm perfect..........






Well as perfect as I strive to be.......




That's with WARTS and all.........

Yeah I tell myself Im perfect all the time too.

oh more than you think, but, as I love to debate, (because it brings out views of both sides and thats healthy me thinks) it only 'looks like we have opposing views ..


you said something in a thread a few days ago, maybe this one about physical contact being a need (while others argued its a 'want'). I wanted (but not needed ) to post and cheer then too.


Becuase there are two very basic communication needs in humans. Verbal and Physical. While women 'tend' to be more verbal and men tend to be more physical, its not an absolute. I laugh when women say ... "all men want is sex", or when men say, "all she ever wants to do is talk". And they repeat this stupid mantra with bitterness in their heart! Its been going on since mankind began and yet very few have used this power for good grasshopper. Its how we feel loved! Complaining about it is counter-productive.

This is perhaps the most valueable information in relationships, yet people treat it like its some curse. Use it for good, as you would, knowing that your partner needs a simple phone call, or anything else to feel ackowledged and loved.

but be on the watch I may choose the opposing view (on any subject) just to see what thats like too...

That's fab two perfect peas in a pod..............

Truthfully the only person that thinks I'm perfect is my Dad. I choose to roll with that.

I am grateful I cannot be "had"....

OMG, I can't believe I'm saying this, but I agree with ship! (Not the first time, but the first time I've admitted it. )

I don't want perfection in a man, or even striving for perfection, cause that person would never be satisfied with himself or me. Would drive me insane.

I ain't being submissive to any man, I don't care how perfect he is! And I'm grounded quite well enough thank you very much! I just might need someone to help me fly!

You have a real knack of saying things well sometimes.

please see allergy thread. re: my allergies ..

I did specify sometimes so you're off the hook.

cool, nice fishy ... toss me back in!, hurry there's a cute lil brook trout!

It seems pretty easy to fall back on "we were schooled". You are a big girl...do what you feel is right. Not what you were 'schooled'. I was schooled to hate blacks...and catholics..and Puerto Ricans, but made a conscience decision that what I was taught was wrong. I made choices for myself. If you let the opinions of others control your life....that is your conscience decision. NO again NO. I do not want to be complimented nor stroked, by any one. I go out of my way to avoid compliments.

You have taken my post w-a-y to personal. Your reply keeps alluding to yourself, my post was about women in general. I I think I said...in general or most!!

Enjoy the rest of your day!