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It seems pretty easy to fall back on "we were schooled". You are a big girl...do what you feel is right. Not what you were 'schooled'. I was schooled to hate blacks...and catholics..and Puerto Ricans, but made a conscience decision that what I was taught was wrong. I made choices for myself. If you let the opinions of others control your life....that is your conscience decision. NO again NO. I do not want to be complimented nor stroked, by any one. I go out of my way to avoid compliments.

You have taken my post w-a-y to personal. Your reply keeps alluding to yourself, my post was about women in general. I I think I said...in general or most!!

Enjoy the rest of your day!

Hi, I was defending all women when I commented on each of your comments. I was never schooled to hate anyone. You did not read what I said when I used Schooling. I said helped him to get his degree while our schooling was put on hold and Stood by him while he was deathly ill, almost died and when he got his health back he hit the road with a younger girl. There are many girls whom have been in this situation.

I used the schooling/health to say that is why in SOME areas of life, I tell myself I am worth it. There is a difference between having a complete I'm worth it bad attitude and an I'm worth it as a reminder to not get hurt again.

Big difference.

Really am not trying to take anything personal just show you a different perspective of the things you said. I'm sorry if I offended you.

I notice she never mentioned what she was willing to contribute.. Appears common these days..

/ what she said - in every single post on this thread... and NOPE, this thread is not about perfection Hi, Patrick

maybe she didn't YET? 'cause "a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question......"What kind of man are you looking for?""
and her starting mumbling about her contribution would look/sound funny as if she had attention deficit disorder or something

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Again with the cop out. If she offered ANYTHING, I'm sure it would be included to make her look good!!

I only want Angelina Jolie cause...."I am worth it"

Ship, thinking like a lawyer? ...theoretically in this conversation she is not "selling" herself but "shopping" for a right man.

And in return she does offer
a) to match all and everything she asks for; b) her RESPECT;

looks good to me

"I am worth it!" really?? who says??? That is her opinion! She says she wants all these things from a man..her "equal".. Really?? who sees these things in her?? Could it be this woman has an over inflated ego??? it is possible, but it's also possible that she is exactly what she claims to be. Re-read CjTenorSax posts carefully and without anger - you'll understand the difference This is how she sees herself, so expectas the same from others not from all the others - just from one special man :) ??

It's kind of like all these people who sate they are VGL in their profiles. That's their opinion of themselves.

The term I deserve it" really torques my jaw. It, to me, show a sign of haughtiness and superiority. I know precisely what you mean by that, it does the same :( thing to my jaw Just because a person says they deserve it....doesn't mean they do!!

... I also know that I'll do anything for a man I'll fall in love with and I'd want to see his efforts to be the best he can for me too;
and I would want to be proud of my choice of a man - what's wrong with that?

... My "Big Sis" warned me that Ship often misses the entire point.

... I also know that I'll do anything for a man I'll fall in love with and and I would want to be proud of my choice of a man - what's wrong with that?

Ship, thinking like a lawyer? ...theoretically in this conversation she is not "selling" herself but "shopping" for a right man.

And in return she does offer
a) to match all and everything she asks for; b) her RESPECT;

looks good to me

let me see , to strive for perfection is to want everything money can buy , but i can certainly tell you that money cant buy love .....the world around us is full of inperfection and failure....so you think you are perfect you have already lost.....god gave him self for mankind for their sins(imperfections) and thus money is the root of all evil ...and those that follow it or who are in search of it are doomed to failure and those who say otherwise are arrogant fools who dont wish to listen.

The world is full of those who have no ears!

... I also know that I'll do anything for a man I'll fall in love with and I'd want to see his efforts to be the best he can for me too;
and I would want to be proud of my choice of a man - what's wrong with that?

... I also know that I'll do anything for a man I'll fall in love with and I'd want to see his efforts to be the best he can for me too;
and I would want to be proud of my choice of a man - what's wrong with that?

/\Hi, Patrick

maybe she didn't YET? 'cause "a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question......"What kind of man are you looking for?""
and her starting mumbling about her contribution would look/sound funny as if she had attention deficit disorder or something

... I also know that I'll do anything for a man I'll fall in love with and I'd want to see his efforts to be the best he can for me too;
and I would want to be proud of my choice of a man - what's wrong with that?