looking for advice with women

lowki
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:02 PM CST

hi guys i really like this girl who works in my local store i think she likes me but im not to sure but im very shy and find it had to talk to women sometimes and when i do try to talk to her she is busey or someone is behide me in the store what should i do

how do i find out if she likes me?

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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:04 PM CST

Wait till its not so busy

be open and honest...

be confident in ur choice of words..

urs shyness will go away..

All the best to you

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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:05 PM CST

kissmedeeply wrote:

Wait till its not so busy

be open and honest...

be confident in ur choice of words..

urs shyness will go away..All the best to you

she is not so busy

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and maybe ask her out if all goes well

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mickeyscouse
London, Outer London, England UK

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:06 PM CST

shove her into the stockroom

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lowki
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:08 PM CST

how do i find out if see is seeing someone with out being to forward?

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roseofsharon
Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:09 PM CST

mickeyscouse wrote:

shove her into the stockroom

Worked for me!!

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Ennaille
Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:10 PM CST

mickeyscouse wrote:

shove her into the stockroom

Good Idea!

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Jan1305
(Moscow region temporarily), Murcia Spain

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:11 PM CST

mickeyscouse wrote:

shove her into the stockroom

Straight and to the point eh?

Not the best place to try and spark up a conversation but possible.

Wait until the store is empty.

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RedHeadedTaurus
Here, Michigan USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:16 PM CST

mickeyscouse wrote:

shove her into the stockroom

Naughty!

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CjTenorSax
Atwater, Ohio USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:16 PM CST

Pay her a compliment on something about her you like. That always helped me and I AM shy too. Sometimes you might find out she really wants to talk to you but is just as shy as you.. Remember COMPLIMENT not comments on her anataomy. I remember a Senior did that when I was a Freshman. He shocked & embarrassed me so bad that I ran from the room everytime he came in. Sad thing was I too had a crush on him and he lost out by being uncoth.

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Sparky55
Prattville, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:29 PM CST

CjTenorSax wrote:

Pay her a compliment on something about her you like. That always helped me and I AM shy too. Sometimes you might find out she really wants to talk to you but is just as shy as you.. Remember COMPLIMENT not comments on her anataomy. I remember a Senior did that when I was a Freshman. He shocked & embarrassed me so bad that I ran from the room everytime he came in. Sad thing was I too had a crush on him and he lost out by being uncoth.

I'm really sorry I made that comment..

On a serious note, good advice...

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crotalus_p
Rush , Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:33 PM CST

mickeyscouse wrote:

shove her into the stockroom

Great advise if she doesn’t think he’s trying to rob the place she will think he’s a rapist

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rivame
melbourne, Victoria Australia

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:39 PM CST

try writing her a quick note.....

Hey I like you , if your interested here is my phone number...hope to hear from you.......

should let you know if she is interested.

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DizzyDi
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 3:47 PM CST

rivame wrote:

try writing her a quick note.....

Hey I like you , if your interested here is my phone number...hope to hear from you.......

should let you know if she is interested.

good idea and tie it to a rose

blushing can be very endearing as well

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 4:18 PM CST

some men are simply brutes

yes the note thing is it

small folded note-for her privacy from coworkers...
"would you allow me your company for a coffee sometime?"
and your number-

simple
no strings

check back 3 days
say gee i hope you didnt find my invitation forward
id just rather know than keep hoping so i thot id try a note?

im a bit clumsy w/ girls

trust me we looove that humble stuff

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 4:21 PM CST

DizzyDi wrote:

good idea and tie it to a rose blushing can be very endearing as well

i disagree di

but hellllo sweetie

ive seen this
in a shop or pub somewhere the person is then under pressure to respond according to her friends that are watching...

private is more comfortable for her and safer for the guy

poor lil thing

leave it to di send the fella into the lions den

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zdeadmanwalking
bowling green, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 4:30 PM CST

amybe just ask her or maybe tell her how you feel about her

you never know unless you are willing to take the first step

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CjTenorSax
Atwater, Ohio USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 7:32 PM CST

Sparky55 wrote:

I'm really sorry I made that comment..

On a serious note, good advice...

Well, if you appolgise now.....

Thanks, Sparky

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 7:34 PM CST

mickeyscouse wrote:

shove her into the stockroom

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StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA

Posted: Jul 14, 2008, 8:36 PM CST

mindfful wrote:

some men are simply brutes

yes the note thing is it

small folded note-for her privacy from coworkers...
"would you allow me your company for a coffee sometime?"
and your number-

simple
no strings

check back 3 days
say gee i hope you didnt find my invitation forward
id just rather know than keep hoping so i thot id try a note?

im a bit clumsy w/ girlstrust me we looove that humble stuff

gotta agree here.......this would get most women i know.........at the very worst you would end up with a "how sweet, but i'm sorry i'm just not interested"

good luck

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