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Teenagers... (HOW do they make it to adulthood?)

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Teenagers... (HOW do they make it to adulthood?)

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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:36 AM CST
easygoingguy wrote:
Dip her fingers into a glass of cool water, before you know it she will be running to the loo....


That is a really good one and it works too.thumbs up
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:37 AM CST
Claire its a teenage thing..

I go through it with my 18 year old...

dont matter what time he goes to bed its hard to get him up
to work..school..apps...and so on...

a tornado could rip the house apart and i swear he would
still be in his bed and not wake up...laugh
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zdeadmanwalking
bowling green, Kentucky USA
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 8:41 AM CST
help simple it is called ice water
help pick the bed and dump it over with them still in it
help get a water gun fill it with ice water
help wake them up 2:00 in the morning,tell them it is time to go to school
by the time they realize what is going on
they already be out of bed and ready for school


trust me these things does work,i used them on my kids
it only takes me 1 time to tell them to get out of bed
and get ready for school.they know what will happen if they don't devil

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Scottishlass
Knoxville, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 9:14 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
Anyone know any fail safe ways of getting them OUT of bed in the mornings?

My daughter is almost unconscious when it's time to wake up.. (really!) No matter how early she gets to bed.. she is practically comatose in the morning.. and it's becoming a big problem.

I wake her every ten mins for almost 2hrs.. and I just don't have time to faff about doing that every day.

When I say wake her.. I mean it's at the point now where I have to make as much noise as possible AND shake the flippin bed.. ...

Gone are the days of.. Morning honey, time to get up .

Any ideas? ... anyone else have one of these teens? ...

MY boys aren't like that..
When my son was going thru that stage I used to squeeze and pull on his toes!! Made him mad as he77 at me but it got him up.
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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 9:25 AM CST
personally I believe in the reward system... dont get up first time and you lose a priveledge, like staying up late, or allowance, whatever she cherishes gets removed from the plate... unless of course she has a sleep disorder.

youre actually becoming her slave, in a repetitive attention fest, the way it is. What are you her mom? rolling on the floor laughing
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dillydally
behind the big green fields , Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 9:32 AM CST
i feel bad that im knocking the fun out of the thread but tough laugh


ok reason your angel sleeps so much teenagers and kids hitting puberty need more sleep than we do ,frankly they need at least 9 to 10 hours rather than the average 8 ,this is due to a few things


1)We now know that our need for sleep is not constant throughout life. We know that newborns sleep the majority of the time, day and night. Between 3 and 6 months of age, infants obtain most of their sleep at night supplemented by daytime naps. By age on1, most youngsters require 14 hours of sleep, the majority of which occurs at night supplemented by 2 daytime naps of 1 to 3 hours. By the age of 2, most children take only 1 nap and between the ages of 3 and 8 napping is generally discontinued. Five year old children typically require 11 hours of sleep per 24 hours. Between the ages of 9 and 10, children typically are able to maintain excellent daytime alertness with 9 to 10 hours of sleep per night.

2)Teenagers require more sleep, by 1 to 2 hours, than do their younger 9 and 10 year old siblings, yet most teenagers get 1 to 2 hours less. Teenagers are the sleepiest members of society .Often teenagers have difficulty falling asleep in the evening and difficulty awakening in the morning. There are at least two major reasons for this sleep pattern. It is commonly assumed that teenagers require less sleep than do their younger siblings when in fact teenagers require more sleep. Because of this, teenagers are frequently sleep deprived. To make matters even worse, teenagers typically don't get appropriately timed bright light as the following example illustrates.

>When Michael was 10 years old, he went to bed at 9 p.m. and awakened promptly at 6:30 a.m. to get ready for school. Michael did well in school and was a very responsible young man. Thus when he entered high school, his parents, thinking that he was now nearly an adult, allowed him to stay up until 10 p.m. on school nights and midnight on weekends. On Saturdays and Sundays he was allowed to sleep in and he usually awakened between 10 a.m. and noon when he went outside (in the bright sunlight) to do his chores. By Sunday night, he was unable to get to sleep at 10 p.m. and although he went to bed then he typically didn't fall asleep until midnight. It was very hard for him to get out of bed at 6 a.m. for school and he was often late. In the winter time he went to school in the dark. While in school, the rooms had only 200 to 400 lux of light. He went home after school at 1:30 p.m. in the bright mid-day light.



hope this helps love wave bouquet of flowers
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 9:34 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
I have (REALLY) thought of that.. but she is likely to go BAL-ISSS-TICCCK!! Marrrnin


I had played with a similar idea when my older son was a teenager. I think you'd only have to do it once & the problem should be over. I never did it though. I used to go in and just pull the covers off him. Once in awhile I'd let the dog in & take him to my sons room....lol Sometimes I'd take the cat in & put her near his head (she has a thing for licking ears).

sigh I miss those days.
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 9:43 AM CST
Get her an alarm clock...put it on full blast and make it her responsibility to get up on her own in the am...she's 16 so the responsibility should be hers...saves your aggravation....wink wave hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 9:46 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
me too.. can you imagine the neighbours tho..


They'd probably thank you for getting THEIR kids out of bed.
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 9:59 AM CST
I can remember when I was a teenager I had an alarm clock that I put across the room so I had to actually get out of bed to turn it off. Mine was just an electric one with a buzzer. Bought both the boys one of those wind up ones that clang the bell, which seemed to work pretty good. I can remember sleeping in on weekends. Can't do it now, the cats won't let me...lol They're used to me getting up at 5:15, so if I'm not up by 6:00 the Siamese is in my room, on my bed, meowing at me....lol I'm lucky if I get to sleep until 7:00.

I have heard that teenagers need more sleep. I think part of it is also due to it being one of their growth phases (when my son shot up to 6'5").

We have a few kids in my school that we've sent to the SARB (School Attendance Review Board) Panel because of their cronic tardies & missing school (if they miss the bus the parent doesn't bring them). So I know where you're coming from there.

Lot's of good suggestions, but also as has been stated, if you tell her what you're going to do, make sure you follow through with it.

Time to go back to work...zzzz ...lol
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NessyBaby
Mandurah, Western Australia Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:05 AM CST
Hey, I being still pretty much a teenager myself know what you're talking about, I'm usually our of it till at least 20 myself, although that's partly my fault for going to bed late. The one thing I always do is if I have to get up I put my alarm on half an hour before I should get up, that means I'm half awake and I can acutally wake up before I get out of bed. (If that makes any sense) It works for me. I always got mum to do it for me before I went off to school. My mum also tried a heap of things like the dog or threatening :P but they never worked.

Hope that may help a little?
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:10 AM CST
Dont_Look_Now wrote:
Good point...unfortunately though, when you are single mom working you have other people helping you raise your kids such as daycare and such. Often times there methods would contradict your own and you end up sending mixed messages to the children...just another lovely thing we single mommy's get to deal with

I was not fortunate enough in my kids younger years to be able to work at home like I do now...I do believe it would have made all the difference in the world if I had been able too


Oh I missed this the first time.. Same as me.. I agree thumbs up
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:12 AM CST
Aries01 wrote:
... I used to drive my mother CRAZY with similar antics.... I used to lie in bed when she called me in the morning and shout 'I'M UP!!'... but not be up at all.. this used to happen over and over again... used to drive her nuts... in the end she had to come into the room and stand there until she saw me actually get out of the bed...

God I pity mothers... I was a real pain in the arse.. don't know how she didn't put me up for adoption... though I'm sure it was mentioned during the course of our many arguments on at least one occassion

Hiya Sweetie


:giggle.. that is the same as me too.. laugh
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:12 AM CST
easygoingguy wrote:
Dip her fingers into a glass of cool water, before you know it she will be running to the loo....



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:13 AM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
Claire its a teenage thing..

I go through it with my 18 year old...

dont matter what time he goes to bed its hard to get him up
to work..school..apps...and so on...

a tornado could rip the house apart and i swear he would
still be in his bed and not wake up...


hahah! yeah thats the one.. rolling eyes


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NessyBaby
Mandurah, Western Australia Australia
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:13 AM CST
I meant out of it until 10 :S my bad.
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kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:13 AM CST
I do not know if anyone said this as I have not read the whole thread but do as in the army and buy a bugle and givethe morning call in the morning. I am sure she will jump out of bedprofessor
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:13 AM CST
zdeadmanwalking wrote:
simple it is called ice water
pick the bed and dump it over with them still in it
get a water gun fill it with ice water
wake them up 2:00 in the morning,tell them it is time to go to school
by the time they realize what is going on
they already be out of bed and ready for schooltrust me these things does work,i used them on my kids
it only takes me 1 time to tell them to get out of bed
and get ready for school.they know what will happen if they don't


hahaha uh oh!
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:15 AM CST
Scottishlass wrote:
When my son was going thru that stage I used to squeeze and pull on his toes!! Made him mad as he77 at me but it got him up.


giggle yeah she does get really mad when I start prodding and pulling at hurt (gently btw lol).. it does make her mad.. but she just goes back to sleep .. Then she doesn't even remember it at all when she finally does get up.. rolling eyes

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 15, 2008, 11:17 AM CST
BnaturAl wrote:
personally I believe in the reward system... dont get up first time and you lose a priveledge, like staying up late, or allowance, whatever she cherishes gets removed from the plate... unless of course she has a sleep disorder.

youre actually becoming her slave, in a repetitive attention fest, the way it is. What are you her mom?


I have/do try all that.. she has zero privileges at the moment.. dunno

To be fair.. she is TRYING.. She makes a big effort before she goes to sleep.. early night.. lavender oil.. herbal sleeping tabs (as of 2 nights ago)..

She just can't do the UPPPP thing.

frustrated
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