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mrsmiles4444
Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 8:53 AM CST
RillyNiceGuy wrote:
Nice guys should finish last!


but if you turned the line around.........................you'd be first! laugh
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kkitty
Minnesota USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 8:55 AM CST
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nothing wrong with controlling it
have you never played PlayStation and well
like I said nothing wrong with taking turns on the controller grin
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mrsmiles4444
Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 8:59 AM CST
kkitty wrote:
nothing wrong with controlling it
have you never played PlayStation and well
like I said nothing wrong with taking turns on the controller


ok, I am now seeing it clearer, and do agree with control. thanks for clearing that up for me...........head banger
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kkitty
Minnesota USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:01 AM CST
mrsmiles4444 wrote:
ok, I am now seeing it clearer, and do agree with control. thanks for clearing that up for me...........



anytime laugh dancing
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dazzling_dave
Waynesboro, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 4:12 PM CST
A guy I once knew told me that his wife had threatened to cut him off from having sex if he didn't do as she wanted. His reply to her was, "you can't cut me off cause you don't know where I am getting it."rolling on the floor laughing
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zulu1980
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 4:53 PM CST
FlowerOfTheSun wrote:
There are far too many people (especially guys) who don't know the difference between making love and having sex IMHO

A lot of women make love as much with their minds as with their bodies. The male body and female body are such that the act of love making in very basic terms means she has to be open to receiving inside of her body - for the male it is more external ...

Sooooooooooo lets say a couple has had a disagreement ... if the lady is the kind of lady who finds it difficult to "just DO sex" for physical gratification/sexual release, she would find it difficult to just "have some fun like you guys" until whatever the disagreement was about is resolved in her head ... It has nothing to do with controlling YOU, it has to do with her own mind AND body being in tune and her being aware of it. There as to be a balance between her mind and her body for her to be able to share her body and receive and give physically ...

A lot of blokes don't have the maturity to understand what I just discribed let alone accept it or even admire a woman whose mind and body are in tune ... Those guys are loosing out on the beauty of intimacy where mind, body and soul are all "invited to the party"!!!


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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 4:54 PM CST
****why do women use sex to control




Because they can!!!
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KHD100
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 6:45 PM CST
jbw77 wrote:
Why do women get such a power trip out of controlling sex? Why can't they just be honest and have some fun like us guys?


and men don't?
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livinglarge
kildare, Kildare Ireland
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 6:53 PM CST
jbw77 wrote:
Why do women get such a power trip out of controlling sex? Why can't they just be honest and have some fun like us guys?

Hum , you are sooo easy to controllaugh laugh
To answer for myself , I dont have to control any 1 or anything.thumbs down
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BlueSkyJ
Reseda, California USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 7:07 PM CST
jbw77 wrote:
Why do women get such a power trip out of controlling sex? Why can't they just be honest and have some fun like us guys?


'Control' implies a one-sided interaction....as if one has the steering wheel & the other is the tires.....ain't nobody gonna tread on me.....

of course my Ex used to try to drive from the 'back seat'....sigh
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KHD100
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 7:34 PM CST
jbw77 wrote:
Why do women get such a power trip out of controlling sex? Why can't they just be honest and have some fun like us guys?


How can you tell a man is horny????
















































He is breathing.
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kkitty
Minnesota USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 7:36 PM CST
KHD100 wrote:
How can you tell a man is horny????
He is breathing.


laugh
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 10:08 PM CST
The question is, why do men use sex to control a woman? dancing elephant dancing elephant dancing elephant
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 10:20 PM CST
Because they can...sigh
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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 11:21 PM CST
jbw77 wrote:
Why do women get such a power trip out of controlling sex? Why can't they just be honest and have some fun like us guys?



Maybe because it has a different meaning to some people?

Personally, if I'm hurt or angry - highly unlikely that I'm going to feel like making love with my partner - there has to be that connection and communication there first.
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 7:51 AM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
The question is, why do men use sex to control a woman?
I shoulda said, why do some men try to use sex to control a woman.

Good lord, if you can't handle it, don't awaken the freakin' beast! frustrated frustrated frustrated
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jampet
wexford, Wexford Ireland
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 8:04 AM CST
langleygirl wrote:
Maybe because it has a different meaning to some people?

Personally, if I'm hurt or angry - highly unlikely that I'm going to feel like making love with my partner - there has to be that connection and communication there first.



exactly- my Ex told me I was 'witholding' sex from him-- i tried to explain that if didn't speak hardly two words to me in days or be involved in anything i or the kids were doing, then it didn't exactly want to jump him!! not withholding, just no desire!
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crotalus_p
Rush , Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 8:08 AM CST
jampet wrote:
exactly- my Ex told me I was 'witholding' sex from him-- i tried to explain that if didn't speak hardly two words to me in days or be involved in anything i or the kids were doing, then it didn't exactly want to jump him!! not withholding, just no desire!







Ouch that's the sort of truth that really hurt'sgrin
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 8:19 AM CST
jampet wrote:
exactly- my Ex told me I was 'witholding' sex from him-- i tried to explain that if didn't speak hardly two words to me in days or be involved in anything i or the kids were doing, then it didn't exactly want to jump him!! not withholding, just no desire!




They all say the same thing........good sentiments.....wave
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spiceygamble
Hell, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 9:18 AM CST
Did it ever occur to you guys who keep encountering "sex control divas" that perhaps it's what you put into the encounter that results in what you receive of it?

This is the same coin, just another side of...
"Why do I attract the same kinda guys/gals" or "Are any loyal & truthful guys/gals anymore"...

Everyone is going to encounter a lousy date. They may even get sucked into a long term relationship that ends poorly. The odds are just set up for it. This does not mean you have to keep encountering the same kinds of situations over & over again.
If you are... the fault ceases to become "the other person's"...

Think about it.
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