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Why is it so hard to be straight up?

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Why is it so hard to be straight up?

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:14 AM CST
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....2 thumbs up

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....

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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:16 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....
Not cool, man!!!!! frustrated Not cool at all sigh
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:24 AM CST


Dont_Look_Now wrote:
Not cool, man!!!!! Not cool at all


Totally uncoolvery mad frustrated

I've had it. It was all fun and games for a while, but when old friends start doing these things, then I don't know what else to do but throw my hands in the air and scream wtf! Oh gosh, what can I do but try and understand....and that especially goes for women!!!!!!!! Yeah, you like to communicate and be honest my fuc88 assvery mad frustrated grin
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drivenbysound
Poplar Bluff, Missouri USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:27 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
Totally uncool

I've had it. It was all fun and games for a while, but when old friends start doing these things, then I don't know what else to do but throw my hands in the air and scream wtf! Oh gosh, what can I do but try and understand....and that especially goes for women!!!!!!!! Yeah, you like to communicate and be honest my fuc88 ass


It digs at an an Aquarius I think more than anybody because they are the truth seekers..and can't understand why people don't do what they say.

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:29 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
Totally uncool

I've had it. It was all fun and games for a while, but when old friends start doing these things, then I don't know what else to do but throw my hands in the air and scream wtf! Oh gosh, what can I do but try and understand....and that especially goes for women!!!!!!!! Yeah, you like to communicate and be honest my fuc88 ass


hey, when I meet a guy for the first time and I dont really like him....i tell him if we should "just be friends". C'mon...even the thickest moron know what that means.....

Speaking for myself....and I have people who can vouch for this.....I am a very vocal person when it comes to communicating.... So if I guy I met feels like I'm giving him the cold shoulder, he knows damn well why....

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drivenbysound
Poplar Bluff, Missouri USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:31 AM CST
princess49503 wrote:
hey, when I meet a guy for the first time and I dont really like him....i tell him if we should "just be friends". C'mon...even the thickest moron know what that means.....

Speaking for myself....and I have people who can vouch for this.....I am a very vocal person when it comes to communicating.... So if I guy I met feels like I'm giving him the cold shoulder, he knows damn well why....


Wannabe tough girl.. boxing


Oh, this is not the post a rumor thread.. D'oh!
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kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:33 AM CST
I am always honest and tell how it is, sometimes not for my own good.
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:35 AM CST
drivenbysound wrote:
It digs at an an Aquarius I think more than anybody because they are the truth seekers..and can't understand why people don't do what they say.


laugh Yep, Aquarius I am...AND I WANT THE TRUTH
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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:37 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
Yep, Aquarius I am...AND I WANT THE TRUTH


YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:37 AM CST
kitty01 wrote:
I am always honest and tell how it is, sometimes not for my own good.


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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:37 AM CST
princess49503 wrote:
YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH


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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:38 AM CST
princess49503 wrote:
YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH


Code red?
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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:43 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
Code red?


As a classic cancerian girl, I can't understand why I find aquarius men so dam attractive.......confused
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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:43 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
Code red?


Actually Tony.She looks Green tonight.laugh

So it would be Code Green.cheers
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:55 AM CST
friendsfirst wrote:
Actually Tony.She looks Green tonight.

So it would be Code Green.


So you brought the bong? Or she brought her A game for me?laugh
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:57 AM CST
princess49503 wrote:
As a classic cancerian girl, I can't understand why I find aquarius men so dam attractive.......


Cancer huh? Hmmmmmmhmmm Oh yeah, I've dated one before...very sensitive species...
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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 2:07 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
Totally uncool

I've had it. It was all fun and games for a while, but when old friends start doing these things, then I don't know what else to do but throw my hands in the air and scream wtf! Oh gosh, what can I do but try and understand....and that especially goes for women!!!!!!!! Yeah, you like to communicate and be honest my fuc88 ass
Hey, you hold them down, StressFree, and I'll smack them boxing boxing boxing


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keytone
Portland, Oregon USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 2:15 AM CST
[quote=StressFree]For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....[/quote sorry to hear that it happened to you. I agree that it is totally sick,,,,I gotta say though,,,it isn't only the western culture, no,,,it happens all over the world. again,,,sorrry to hear thatthumbs down
thing is you never even see it coming do ya??
take it easy
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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 2:17 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....


So if she sent a singing telegram or a bouqet of black roses, would that be sufficient?
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gsdforlife
barrie, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 2:18 AM CST
Cancerian - is Aquarius one of the compatible signs?
In my younger years I did not give much weight to this horoscope and compatibility predictions. But after TWO very intense, abusiVe relationships with GEMINI man, I will turn and run if I meet another one. Scorpio and Virgo are the top choices. My last LTR was with a Scorpio and we had difficulties with culture issues. not compatibility.
We understood and accepted each other on one level, but when the culture differnces were present; it created a lot of fighting, etc.

Just my experience so far.

Good Luck
And yes, we are Very Sensitive beings. But I didn't just sit down in the corner and start to weep - I have Strong Leo characteristics also.




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