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Why is it so hard to be straight up?

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:32 PM CST
Stressfree are you back home?(Sweeden)laugh wave

Good to see you back.

It sucks when people don't say it straight away. But implied denial should also work sweetiesigh

I hope you had a wonderful time in America, i hope you also felt weird there, i hope you finally are a citizen of the world who likes bashing every nation just for the sake of it!laugh

Love yateddy bear
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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:38 PM CST
cristina wrote:
Stressfree are you back home?(Sweeden)

Good to see you back.

It sucks when people don't say it straight away. But implied denial should also work sweetie

I hope you had a wonderful time in America, i hope you also felt weird there, i hope you finally are a citizen of the world who likes bashing every nation just for the sake of it!

Love ya


I will be back in Sweden in 3 weeks cristina. I am actually having the time of my life besides a couple of road bumps that are behind me now...I'm here in California for one more week and then the last two weeks will be in Las Vegas....

My mom asked me if I wanted to have dinner with her and her husband tonight in the city...I told her straight up no way! Those two together drive me nuts...she understood, but I told her straight up...no lame excuses...
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 1:41 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
I will be back in Sweden in 3 weeks cristina. I am actually having the time of my life besides a couple of road bumps that are behind me now...I'm here in California for one more week and then the last two weeks will be in Las Vegas....

My mom asked me if I wanted to have dinner with her and her husband tonight in the city...I told her straight up no way! Those two together drive me nuts...she understood, but I told her straight up...no lame excuses...


Now you made me smile with shinning eyeslaugh

Good to hear you are being spoiled by America sweetie! Enjoy every bit baby boy!

Nah, don't go dinning with you mom and her hubbywink laugh

wine to you!
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hrt4lse
Redding, California USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 2:46 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
I will be back in Sweden in 3 weeks cristina. I am actually having the time of my life besides a couple of road bumps that are behind me now...I'm here in California for one more week and then the last two weeks will be in Las Vegas....

My mom asked me if I wanted to have dinner with her and her husband tonight in the city...I told her straight up no way! Those two together drive me nuts...she understood, but I told her straight up...no lame excuses...


How are you handling all the smoke? Be prepared for it in Vegas too.
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Ennaille
Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 2:54 PM CST
"Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace."




You just asnwered your own question in my opinion ---- IT'S BECOUSE THESE PEOPLE ARE SOOOOO FUCKING SHALLOW!!!

And it is true! People should be more straight forward and say what they think instead of playing stupid mind games wasting other people time. professor

cheers
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Jan1305
(Moscow region temporarily), Murcia Spain
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 3:00 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....


How strange. As an occasional CS wanderer I've read your posts and threads and my impresssion was that you were a fun and games type person who didn't take life or relationships so seriously?

I'm not criticising, just surprised by your about turn.
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gypsykisses
Port Huron, Michigan USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 3:09 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....



drinking wOw...I'm not really sure why you think you deserve an answer, you are smart enough to know that sometimes there are no answers. Quit having a shit fit and go find your magic...D'oh! you need to direct your energies to a positive place. No need to professor just chill and find peace with it all..comfort



jmo
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 3:33 PM CST
Why is it so hard to be straight up?

Hmmm...well, it seems to me that if you're hard, you probably more or less have the other...? I mean, speaking purely as a guy...dunno confused wine
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Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 5:06 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....
No its not cool.I dont know whats happened to people.It makes u feel so much better to be on the up and up with someone.I hate hurting feelings but I wont fool anyone and wont leave them hanging.So I dont have an answer either.
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 5:22 PM CST
irishlass45 wrote:
This was well said, had to quote it, good one lady aries and oh so true


Thanks honey hug wave
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 5:32 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
I will be back in Sweden in 3 weeks cristina. I am actually having the time of my life besides a couple of road bumps that are behind me now...I'm here in California for one more week and then the last two weeks will be in Las Vegas....

My mom asked me if I wanted to have dinner with her and her husband tonight in the city...I told her straight up no way! Those two together drive me nuts...she understood, but I told her straight up...no lame excuses...


Hiya... wave... first I wanna say that it is the best of friends that will take you for granted most... so try not to take it too to heart.. though you were right to say it to your friend... darn rude and should be pointed out.. if he was running late he could have at least text you or something.. understand ur frustration..

Also I do hope you will get to spend time with ur Mum... though you most likely will have already...

cheers hug

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martyg
Dublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 6:40 PM CST
irishlass45 wrote:
More insight, hope you don't mind Mr.T i have said this before and i hope that two very special people from here see this as i hope you do mr.T....when we meet a certain somebody there are factors that draw us to them, otherwise they would be "just another face in the crowd" so SOME attraction made that certain somebody special, when we get involved with that certain somebody we forget what drew us to them to start with, and why? because we are always trying to conform/size/fit that person into somebody they are not but you just want to change something or other a WEEEEEE little bit, well there went the attraction factor! poof! you can't change what you had so you shouldn't try to change what you have, be good with what you have and all else will fall into place.

One other thing, why do we always stop doing what we did from the first and start doing things we didn't do from the first? this always =disaster

Sorry to rattle mr.T, you know how i get sometimes, we love you

And to the two i aimed this to also you know who you are, you two are being two ninnies, can we not remember? COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY?





I think you are way off the mark hon....

Please don't go in to that counseling job, we have enough nuts here.

*Irishlass takes up counseling, cs membership increases ten fold*laugh laugh

Me still loves ya though ninnieteddy bear grin
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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jul 18, 2008, 12:56 AM CST
mrsmiles4444 wrote:
I find this place to be so cool. these threads go from frustration, to horoscopes, to sheep, to not geting sleep. wondeful, it's like a soap opera. "as the thread turns"



That's part of what makes it so entertaining!laugh


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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
Posted: Jul 18, 2008, 1:07 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....
when ppl get scared its fight or flight so to speak...
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LordGoose
warsaw Poland
Posted: Jul 18, 2008, 2:34 AM CST
lets say i have been honest all my life , and i can tell you nice guys finish last in nearly every situation the bad boys always win because of many reasons.


i have been considering changing my nice ways to be a bad boy!!!!!!


or stay single till im dead!


it makes no difference to me , girls are high maintenance anyway , besides girls want more than the simple life.

as this song says i want it all by queen!

l8r Goose moping mumbling
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Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 10:57 AM CST
I'm an Aquarius with a Sag rising. An armed private eye, in other words. If I don't get the TRUTH<verymad> then I start shooting people...

With metaphorical arrows of course. Not only do I give the truth, I get the truth, or else. And that is what the Archer is about...

here's to you grin
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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 11:04 AM CST
StressFree wrote:
For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....


Happens to me all the time..
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 11:09 AM CST
LordGoose wrote:
lets say i have been honest all my life , and i can tell you nice guys finish last in nearly every situation the bad boys always win because of many reasons.i have been considering changing my nice ways to be a bad boy!!!!!!or stay single till im dead!it makes no difference to me , girls are high maintenance anyway , besides girls want more than the simple life.

as this song says i want it all by queen!

l8r Goose


clever boys win, not bad boys!

heart marketing babydancing

grin here's to you
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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 11:10 AM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
I'm an Aquarius with a Sag rising. An armed private eye, in other words. If I don't get the TRUTH<verymad> then I start shooting people...

With metaphorical arrows of course. Not only do I give the truth, I get the truth, or else. And that is what the Archer is about...


yes sir

cheers
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LordGoose
warsaw Poland
Posted: Jul 21, 2008, 10:16 AM CST
i can be clever , but it makes no difference......girls heads are never screwed on at least the ones i have come across!

many profiles here say nice guy needed apply within ....what a crock of shit......they are saying as long as your a bad boy with money.
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