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Thanks for the input everybody I totally appreciate it.

I feel much better today...now that I am not so drunk.

What happened yesterday was that one of my best friends did not show up to have dinner with me over at fisherman's wharf...so I waited and waited and waited....and that fucker would not answer his phone or return at least a text. This just made me apeshit cause I have known this guy since I was 16. So I get some bs text a while ago saying that he got caught up at work and could not escape....sure buddy....we planned this like 2 weeks ago. Okay, the dude has a high pressured job and is some important business executive, but I don't care. We planned this two weeks ago and for him to value his work over our friendship is just bizarre in my world....good for him and he is the one who has to live with it. He said he is planning to visit me when I am in Las Vegas again next week....sure guy. I told him to stop making promises and to fuck off.

Also, my next door neighbor that I grew up with, never returned my calls or mails. She lives in Long Beach and I was planning to visit here there...I just don't get why she never returned any of my reach out messages...we are like brother and sister...we never has an arguement or anything...we had a great time last time I was here two years ago...so I'll just assume she is depressed....
Anyways, it's sunny today and my other best friend is coming over in a bit..this guy is the one of two friends that I can trust.

True, the control issue is one thing I can do about myself and my understanding, but it aint easy people when it does actually happen...it's a process.

When women do this or possible dates, that I can understand...kinda. But when friends do it......

For real? I just don't get the casual and usual bs that I encounter in Sweden or in America. First it's a lie, then I guess it's like totally in vogue to just not say anything and leave me hangin....

Why is it so hard for people to just tell you the real deal? I mean, I do tell people when I don't want to do something straight up. I don't fuckin not answer my phone or just not decide to call you anymore...fuck that. I will tell you and put things in the crystal clear.

I can't stand the part about our western culture of just blowing people off....like you will not get a fuckin explanation about whatever becuase ?????????????

Tell me...I am tired of speculating...give me some insight here...why are some people so fuckin shallow that they think they can just be gone with the wind and without a trace.

Is it that cool to just leave somebody hangin and not ever respond and at least give an explantion as to why this or that will not take place and happen? I don't care what you say...just say something and be an adult....