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daisychick- my thoughts are with you and your family

Daisy, I'd suggest taking time to honor your husband, with the understanding that the last thing he'd want would be for you to suffer on this day.

take care of you, that is what he would want
remember all the good things
no matter what no one can take away the time you had and your memories
share them and celebrate his life

Yeah, what Jeff said. I'm sure he wouldn't want you getting depressed or moping around the house. I'm sure he'd want to see that you're surviving and getting along well and that you've found some happiness. Remember him, but go out & have a good time.

*Big Hugs*

remember you know how to get ahold of me if you need someone to talk to. and i'll be around to help you if you need it. i cant imagine what you are going though but i always have a ear if you need someone to listen

...God bless you and confort you not just at this day but every day of your life.

Daisy, you and your family will be in my prayers tonight.

And I second Ambrose's comment!!

Just wanted to thank those who have taken the time to wish me well. I will post more later.


Jen

Been out all day ... not long been back ...

Jen my heart goes out to you and I am here for you if you need anything

Much love and support to you darlin.......

I can't imagine what it must be like. With friends like Branded and your IRL friends you don't have to go through this alone. It helps to talk about it (that's what I do with anything that's bothering me), I don't do it much on CS, just with friends IRL.

bump

been there--there was no wedding but many years
i am so sorry--almost 4 for me
i was still numb at one-staying isolated

you are doing great sweetie

as you know
there are no words

xxxx


poor sweetie

You guys all rock! I didn't feel much like talking earlier but I am doing much better. Just needed to get through the day. It was hard because my son is on a camping trip and I can't talk to him, It made it much harder not knowing how he was dealing with everything.

Don't know what it is or why this day had to be so emotional for me but I am glad it is almost over. I've been dreading today for so long but now I am feeling really good about moving forward.

Joey you are very sweet for starting this thread!

I love ya all, my CS buddies, you mean a lot to me!!

Much love,


Jen (otherwise known as DaisyChick)

PS. thanks to all the flowers, cards and mail I recieved, I hope to one day respond to all of it :D

As the years pass by, he grieving will lessen but the memories will always remain...head high hun

Ummm... I kinda feel weird if I don't remind people that I was separated for a couple of years before my husband died. He was my best friend and we decided long before to leave it at that. It by no way takes away the hurt or pain of losing your childs father OR your best friend.

To the few of you that sent me some nasty mail... Don't judge, you don't know me or my life. I am an honest, caring person. If you don't see that then that is YOUR problem.

Who sent you nasty mail? Tell me and I'll beat em up for you!

Seriously Jen, you're a sweetie.