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I don' know why this happens to me. Whenever I correspond with a lady whom I am inrested in meeting, I email her and her answer takes a little longer. On the other hand, I write to a lady whom I not intrested in having a relationship with her. She always answers back quickly.
It goes like this. I open my inbox, hoping to see an email from a lady whom I like. Instead the lady I dont like answers and that makes me angry.
Tell me, has that ever happen to you?

First Question...Why would you mail a lady you are not interested in???

Is it fair to that lady thinking maybe that you are...

Maybe the one you are interested in...She is not interested in you...Maybe that is why she is not mailing you back...

And the one you mailed that you are not interested in..is in you

I am too prompt in mailing for my own good. If i dont like the mail or i am not interested in corresponding .. i know its rude .. but i just dont reply.

Otherwise ... i am prompt.

I have problems getting the message across to people of certain regions .. otherwise its been ok ..

the lady you dont like is really the lady you ought to like ... since she shows interest...


so dont go treating the one who does mail you like the one who doesnt mail you...

And another one!

Seems to be no shortage of *them*, does there, Bebe?

they keep escaping!!!

someone has to round them up..

I mailed her last but she didin't respond ... this means ... I still have a chance!!!

hmmmmmmmmm
what about the ones that never email you

thems the sure things!! row row row your boat ... people who dont mail u back or never do... are soooo in love with me it hurts to tell ya.

and another reason could be that the woman you do like has many people that like her, so it takes her awhile to get back with you, or she is simply not interested... and as for the lady your not interested in WTF!!! why would you email someone you don't like ???? but anyway she may not have many people emailing her ,so she is very happy to reply as quickly as possible when she does receive one. and if you keep respondng to her, you are just leading her on?? thats stupid. now next week she will be telling all of us men about how guys don't make any sense or are assholes and we will have our hands tied behind our back to argue against her, thanks pal

oh hurt me with your best shot

OK, here's my pitch on your dilema. first of all, you should be content with just having an email conversation with someone of the opposite sex, instead of with "DA GUYS". secondly, just because there is email communication does not mean mariage is in our future, or that we Will EVER MEET that person. thirdly, your pic shows you like 40 million miles away, and when it is posted here it seems blurry, so do something about that. Just put a better closer shot of you. that in itself might help. I'm not one to go reading your profile yet I'm sure probing the others who do email you, you could possibly find out from THEM, what they found appealing about you, and enhance that feature.
and last but not least...........................why get angry.....it has no productive value in your life, so don't sweat the small stuff. have fun, and maybe they will see you as the guy you are, instead of the guy who complains about NOT getting emailed back, from the women of HIS interest.

Now go forth, and multiply!

I'm not a shooter, I'm a squirter

and I am a squatter

I refuse to believe you unless it says so in a mail.

there was a mention about emails earlier and it was going in the direction of no news is good news

its just a rumour

I , personally, will respond to all of the e-mails or flowers unless the e-mail is just a statement from someone I got to know well and there is no reason to reply. I have only had on rude e-mail since I have been here a year ago and I reponded " You Have a Nice Day" and then blocked the person. J.M.O.

You're a sweet one, Arlene. One of my selves is like that, too...