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i did not specify gender for replies, this is for everybody menina! Ciao!

As a matter of fact i would like to hear input from women, i would be grateful for a reply as to their viewpoint,

Newcastle I'll take some of that lol. You'll get some women giving you advice. Hopfully it helps.

hey mike, i feel quite stupid and less cynical, because right after reading your advice, i recieved a message asking to meet for a date,hmmm.........maybe there is something to this online thing?(or maybe it was due to the newcastle?)lol! By the way i am still interested in a womans viewpoint on the subject. Eu amo voces!

It worked for me.... I met my girl nearly 2 years ago on this site and we are still going strong and she lives over 400 miles away in another country, we see each other two weekends a month

If it was the newcastle then you know what to order her for her drink and alot of them lol. Good luck

Good lord, you guys have been here 2 or 3 weeks and bitching about not finding anyone?

Yeah, keep that positive attitude, works every time!

No we have not been here 2 or 3 weeks bitching about anything. This guy was wanting to hear some advice and he is getting it. For me this is the first time on this tread. I do believe brasileiro is new here also. So the 2 or 3 weeks thing is wrong. These are Q not bitching. but thanks for your interest

This is just a heads up you sound a bit bitter and deperate in what you write. Three weeks is F all time really.

Maybe just relax and not expect to find your 'one' so quickly. Would you not find it better to get to know alot of people rather than jump on the first one that sends a mail or shows any interest. Relax get to know people what will be will be and if its not then there is F all you can do about it really.

Both men and women have choice we choose who we like and who we are not interested in.

I dont think its a matter of a woman talking to a guy and a new hoochie daddy pops up and then tells you to shove off.

Ummm, that was directed more at the OP, and some of the responses to him. And I didn't read every post, but the OP had nothing to do with asking for advice, just the same ol' song and dance some of us been hearing for 2 years, nobody has jumped on me yet, so it must all be fake. You hadn't even posted your reply just above mine when I started my post, so really, it's not all about you. But keep that positive attitude, I'm sure it'll be real attractive to somebody.

Your right both men and women have their choice.hahahaha I bet you thought I was going to argue with you. Sounds good to me but hoochie daddys. Is that what we are lol.

See now that would be choice again if I want to think of you as a hoochie daddy and you choose to be a hoochie daddy. Then its a hoochie Daddy.

If I choose not to associate with a hoochie daddy, I'm sure my options will be in my favor, same for a male.


Dont ask me to repeat that.

Thanks, I will keep my positive attitude. And it is attractive to many lovely women. but I must say it sounds like you need to get laid and soon.

Wow! amazing some people got so angry and out of sorts, im sorry didnt mean to make anyone angry,it was just a simple observation on how things are different for men as it is to women. I did not mean to sound bitchy, and the last thing i am is desperate(although i am doing online dating so that might make me a hypocrite!). So hearfelt apologies to anyone ive offended. Sinto Muito! Love,peace and unity!

I'm not angry just tring to give some advice is all

can you give me some??

One thing i have to say to everyone(yes, you too sxc!) is that i appreciate each and every one of your input and advice. You all have something interesting to say that i will learn from. Obrigado! thank all of you!

CAN YOU REPEAT THAT? You know I was going to do that. Choice,choose that is all there is. That is how we get to where we go. Now I dont choose to be a hoochie daddy but If someone see's me as one does that make me one.

you're welcome try to stay positive. It will all unfold hopefully in the end