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Considering the millions of single available women on this planet that are searching for mates, one must consider there's less as many males seeking that same fulfillment.
Therefore, in any given country I would suppose that the odds and numbers of both available groups in percenatge and ratio stats would be about the same ratio wise.
I have been on several dating sites and have found myself to be more attractive to Foriegn women and contacted by them. While I have no issues with that, then I wonder why more American gals ignore my profile and look, yet fail attempting to converse with me whereas, so many other beautiful women across the world are attracted to me and contact me?
I wonder therefore how many other single men have the same situation developing ?
I myself find this Phenomena very interesting. I also find more chat in my mail than real interest. Considering I'm tall ,handsome, honest and secure causes me to wonder exactly what my own American Women are after?
Gone are the days of the Front Porch Rocker and the shared two straw Milkshake at the local Drugstore. Instead a huge vacuum seems to have replaced local values and commonsense. I mean, what man or woman wants to spend their lives whizzzzing around the world seeking a soulmate ?
Looks almost like the alternatives for many men and women would be "The Mailorder Bride" or a cheap" Blowup Doll".

Tom Diamond

So what's the problem?

You must be thrilled

So as an American Woman you think tis' okay to loose your men to other Countries ?I would think that you would be protective of your own vanishing available men which far underscore in count, single females in this country and across the world??
We are few, yet you are so very many.

Tom Diamond

JMO..... grass is always greener somewhere else... if north american women think men over seas are exotic and tempting.... why not be it in reverse for European women... you look like something exotic to them?

green card...... or its safer to want someone over seas.... to avoid a real relationship.... or they have an image of what someone from another country is like.... ??

Perhaps a touch of modesty wouldn't hurt...
Every guy online can spout off their fantastic charms list, just as any girl can go on & on about how they're sweet, loving & pretty. If your market is over seas, have at it.
...mind you, whining like a simpering child really doesn't sell well to the American girls.

Good luck.

I had a woman contact me from Houston Texas. Great! A really intelligent woman and stunningly beautiful. I replied but found she is actually living in Southeast Asia !
I ,like many of you respect truth. We all need to use good judgement. I guess tonight I'll have to go out and grab a few Buds and do some dancing to get over my ,lying Beauty,LOL.


Tom Diamond

Some of us may look and never contact because we've found one or two things in the profile that are "no go" for us. So why bother going someplace if you already know it's not what you want.

Tom,
Maybe because, American women don't NEED a man or a husband. Compare these foreign women to American women. We earn more money and have a better education.

Me personally? I am completely financially independent. I don't need to be saved or taken care of.

The reason I am looking for a man who is equally educated and gainfully employed is because I'm not going to support a drunken jobless slob .

If I don't find the man of my dreams, thats ok too. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than settle for a pig who will make me miserable.

If your waiting for someone to jump up and say "Oh no! don't give up hope, Tom" then you'll be waiting a llllloooooooonnnnnnggggggg time. So in the mean time start blowing your plastic doll.

Big Hat, No Cattle

You trying to say "Where's the beef?"

I have got some attention from few American gentlemen, and it’s nearly always the same story: a lot of self-advertising and a patronizing attitude. I didn’t like that at all. Perhaps the American women don’t like that as well?

But I have to admit that the local gentlemen are not in hurry to make an acquaintance. I’m getting mail from all the exotic places instead. Well… it’s seems that grass is indeed greener and snow whiter somewhere else but at home...

*OMG LMAO...

You nailed it!
To put it simply... that is not sexy.
If you're out drinking with the boys, fine... go blow smoke up each others dart boards.
Back on Earth where reality is king... ...
It's the law of advertising, blow big & hard to make heads turn. The problem is, women are no longer thought of as property & playing up to us as if those ideas are still in effect... again, not sexy.
Actions will always speak louder than words... and words tend to become Peanut Gallery voices once heard too much.

...having said that...

[quote=princess49503]Tom,
Maybe because, American women don't NEED a man or a husband. Compare these foreign women to American women. We earn more money and have a better education.
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As in , foreign women are the opposite?

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You dont, they're so big, there's no where else to put it

Thank you darlin'.
I am the type of man who walks erect and proud. I am self aware at all times to events and circumstances surrounding me. I am also aware of the profile I cut in life. To be any less demands disrespect as all people are judged by how they act,look, re-act and live by other individuals as they fulfill or don't, their expectations..
I am no simpering man.
I once roped a wild Stallion on the High Plains in West Texas. I ran him for over 20 miles to rope him. All the time I was riding after him his head was held high and proud. He knew as well as I who would win, yet he was proud when I pulled up with him.
I hated to bring him in, but the alternative was starvation or dying from thirst. Yet he surrendered with the same pride and honor in which he had when he ran free.
He survived the terrible drought and sired many wonderful Colts.
So then, I am proud of me as well. I'm my own best friend and depend on me.

Tom Diamond

I just want to respond to the better education and money of the American women then the foreign women.
Maybe you would like to educate yourself a little about the European women before you make a statement like that.
Being born and raised in Holland I can tell you that I actually would make more money there than here. And honestly I don't think you are better educated than me. I am very selfsufficient and independent.
I'm not looking for an arguement, I just want to point out to go easy on making statements like that!!!

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I am amazed at the equality all women all over this earth have fought for and won. The fight has been hard but a good fight. Seems to me the harder they fight the tougher they become. That is good. This world would be much better for it if my species would just wake up a little more and pay attetion.
Tom Diamond

The problem with you is easy to see in that you are looking for another complete match to you which is of course( Yourself).
Your reply was full of condemnation against the opposite sex instead of fruitfull thinking.

Just for what it's worth, Tom --

There's a big difference between self-confidence and arrogance.

Me, well I maybe don't amount to much, but I learned a long time ago that I don't have to prove a damn thing to anybody but myself. And I'm living a life I love with the lady of my dreams. In fact I met her right here on this site.

You? Well sir, you're the self proclaimed cock of the walk - You've been all, done all, seen all, ad infinitum, ad nausem. Let's face it, you're one hell of a catch! - But who are you gonna' wake up next to in the morning?

Don't brag quite so much, Tom -- It ain't the whistle that pulls the train and most ladies are smart enough to realize that.



...Don...