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are yu saying the indian laws were not apliyng to the ones that inmigrate to america, for the only reazon it was not made by the "new ameriucan citicens"

the indian laws whre the one in efect when the white people landed here





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to answer your question

treat those that come leggaly or illegal, the same nice way and the warm welcome the americans are welcome when they live illegally in othjer countries

and to continue with one of my favorites examples
the same way americans ask for a break when they turn right on red, in countries where the it is illegal explaining thy got use to that way of driving
be pateinf to those that arrive here and will automatically stop on a red ligt






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Your English is still no better Alex. I never mentioned the topic at all. I did not complain about anything. I did not say that I disliked the thread. I just asked a question about the person who posted.

So, since I am not complaining about the topic, nor am I mentioning the topic, and never said that I dislike the thread, I would like to know why you are asking me these stupid questions and accusing me of things I am not doing?

By the way I am not an old citizen. You are older than I am, even if you are not as mature. Now go and pick someone else to practice your abuse on.





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"Just can’t care anymore..."

Yep, that just about sums it up!!





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thank you

now i got it

the problem was my languiage

now iut is clear for me

i have to keep away from the forums until i leanr better the english language

will you please remaind me where int this international folrum states that only those that are frleunt in the english language can post and the rest have to be away?

i meant you are a much older CS citizen

it is not related to age

finally, are you saying that mature people as yourself are the one that are aloud to order the inmature what to do?

you forgot to warn me that you will report me





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That's not what I said Alex. I said treat them humanely and send them home. If they are in the U.S. or any other country illegally they need to go back to where they came from. The point being, illegal or not, there no reason to treat them poorly or to abuse them.

Legal immigrants should be treated like anyone else. We can expect them to make honest mistakes just as we make mistakes in other countries. Your driving example is a good one.





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great post !!





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Thanks Riya, you are one of the most consistantly nice people on CS. I truly admire the way you handle yourself. A for you





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Why would I do that? Stupidity is not contageous.





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nor can it be fixed





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in most every thread i post, when you dont like my post you threatened me to report me

i dare you (using your own words of a previous post)

post that you will report me






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Alex you forgot your pills again. Now go away and play with yourself and leave me alone. I've had enough laughs for one day.







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i said what i meant

if your ead my original post i said

again, not complaining, but trying to undertand this dateing worlds with all the double standarts preaced by some of the most old citicens

i was talking about the dating world

you come to CS (part of the dating world) earlier than me

it was clear i said dating world

but it was not clear for you that CS is a dating site

as you said, i am thankfull stupidity is not contagious as i will not get it





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Not in his case anyway.





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Alex ... every time you say "I'm not complaining" you ARE complaining about something BUT you tell yourself (and us) you are doing it to try to understand ...

It's the same every time someone starts a sentence with "I'm not racist but ...", then follow it with something that has "racist sentiments"

OR

"I'm not sexist but ..." then follow it with someting that has "sexist sentiments"

So can we agree on something here Alex ... and please DO try to understand ...

Every time you feel the need to write "I am not complaining but ..." ask yourself WHY you need to tell yourself and others that you are not complaining ... If you really are NOT complaining it should be obvious to you and others that it's the case and you shouldn't feel the need to make that statement!!!!!!!

Also in the same way that you don't like others telling you how to think or what to do, have you thought of NOT trying to get others to think the way you do AND act the way you do?

You want to be accepted and liked for who you are, then it goes both ways ... You also accept and like other for who they are!!

Take care







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i doi not have the need to complain
i was trying to say that it si not my state of mind to complain, as people take i commplain

it hapens before

unless i sgined any thjng i post with a JMO people thougth i was sating some one else opinion

there are menything i dont need to explain
i dont need to say it is my opinion
i dont need to say i am complaining

but people take things in other way as the one i am saying, i am learning which are those ways and try to explain i am not having those sentiments, when i do not have them

she used to say i compain, i was saying to her i do not complain

people that know me in real life (not the fake dating world) know that i do not complain
they know i state my opinion, unles i start my sencence sayiong "acordiung to (put a name here)......"
i have fouind people in the fakle dating world, will question my credentials when i post a joke in the jokes forums as giving "advices"

again, i asked for help a few days ago, about protocol and political correctnes in the advice forums, and she comes there to say i shouild not complain she seems to undertand everything as complaining

i have not other words to use, my lack of the english language is a barried there, and a good oportunity for some one to "understand" things diferent







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Ok Alex ... just don't get yourself so upset about it all ...

You now just as sometimes people don't understand what you mean or where you're coming from, the same in reverse happens ... sometimes you don't understand what they mean or where they're coming from because you take their worlds literally when it was meant metaphorically or as a joke ...

That is why we have to accept one another just as we ALL are, you included AND when there is a misunderstanding sometimes it better to just DROP IT, LET IT GO and move onto something that is more pleasant ...

You can use a visualisation to help you if you want ... For instance
- think about something someone has said that is bothering you because you are finding it difficult to just let go or because you can't agree
- now write it on a piece of paper using your own words and in your own way OR write it on the computer then print it
- now tear up the piece of papers into little bits or screw up the page so no one can read it
- imagine a steam boat - you can make as mall or large as you want as simple or elaborate as you want
- imagine yourself safely getting on the boat and exploring the steam boat with the bits or ball of paper in your hand
- imagine that now you come accross the boiler where the steam is generated from, you stand a short while looking at it
- imagine yourself walking towards the boiler till you are near enough to touch it if you extend your arm
- now imagine yourself extending your arm and dropping the pieces or ball of paper amongst the burning coals, careful not to burn yourself!!
- now imagine watching the bits/ball of paper turning into flames and burning into ashes, then watch the smoke rise
- whatever was on your mind has now evaporated into steam going up into the sky and the clouds, no longer your concern
- now imagine retracing your steps and safely getting off the boat and back to your home, computer chair etc ...
- you feel so much lighter and happier!!!

Alex hope you try the visualisation and it helps









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there is a huge diference
when i belive people do not undetnad me, i send a private note to explain myselkf and build a bride of cominucations

some take it the right way
othesr use that as another excuse to make another post to wanrm me i will be reported by my post in the forums

any way, your point is a valid one





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Thank you Alex. Are you going to try using the visualisation?





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