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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 3:59 PM CST
Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.



Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...teddy bear
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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:00 PM CST
I have indeed reached this place without a full-time male tip hat

Sorry, could not help it. grin
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:02 PM CST
rwantin wrote:
I have indeed reached this place without a full-time male

Sorry, could not help it.




You funny onion.......wave
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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:05 PM CST
stefonline wrote:
Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...


Well Steph, as for me, I have become used to not having a lady in my life, but I still have the desire to want one in my life, at least a girlfriend, living together I think at this point wouldn't be a big issue right now, but if the relationship were to grow to the point of really becomming something more that just dating.. living together would more than likely happen...
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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:05 PM CST
In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.
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airliner
Central, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:07 PM CST
Hi Steffwave would involuntary singlehood count??
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Justme4uok
Northern CA, California USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:07 PM CST
rwantin wrote:
In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.



Makes perfect sense....I'm there with you on that interpretion....


Getting use to someone elses life style could be a challenge after being alone for so long....
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:07 PM CST
Daniel4021 wrote:
Well Steph, as for me, I have become used to not having a lady in my life, but I still have the desire to want one in my life, at least a girlfriend, living together I think at this point wouldn't be a big issue right now, but if the relationship were to grow to the point of really becomming something more that just dating.. living together would more than likely happen...





Thank's for your response D.....much appreciated......I think I would be actually terrified to share my life with someone again.....hug
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airliner
Central, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:08 PM CST
rwantin wrote:
In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.


Son, does your mom know where you are???laugh
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:09 PM CST
airliner wrote:
Hi Steff would involuntary singlehood count??




That counts but I think it's more a case where this woman has voluntary singlehood chosen.....wave
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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:09 PM CST
airliner wrote:
Son, does your mom know where you are???


Shhhh. Skipping out on recess...
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:11 PM CST
rwantin wrote:
In sincere response to your post, it's been more than two years now, and I am, in fact, used to not having someone around, and am comfortable with that. Conversely, I think it might actually take a little time to adapt if there was someone around all the time now, if that makes sense.




It all makes perfect sense to me......and yes one dose get very used to not having someone around......adapt is not something I'm sure I ever want to do again.....
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:12 PM CST
Justme4uok wrote:
Makes perfect sense....I'm there with you on that interpretion....Getting use to someone elses life style could be a challenge after being alone for so long....




Just getting used to someone new can be challanging......wave
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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:13 PM CST
stefonline wrote:
Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...
thumbs up
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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:15 PM CST
stefonline wrote:
Thank's for your response D.....much appreciated......I think I would be actually terrified to share my life with someone again.....


Your welcome Steph, yeah, I understand, I wrote a poem about the way I percieve how ladies are when they have been torn apart in past relationships.. I really feel for them.. they become so untrusting of other guys and scared to open up, because they fear it will happen all over again... but then it can happen to any of us, man or woman...

The question I think is, do we really want someone in our life bad enough to take that chance?
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:15 PM CST




This has to be a very good place......rolling eyes
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Galactic_bodhi
Portland, Oregon USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:16 PM CST
Having been alone longer than attached in life overall...I say I'm pretty content to be alone.

It's the little things I miss actually...

Calling at lunch to find out how your day's going....

Having someone to cuddle with when watching TV.

And...most important...trading massages...
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soulmateTWS
somewhere, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:17 PM CST
stefonline wrote:
Hi All,

I have to say I have reached a point in my life after spending some years living without a full time live in male in my life where I feel comfortable with myself and no longer long for someone to share it with.
Has anyone else reached this place if so let me know...



Meh, I'm open to living with another man, full time, if the situation presents itself...If not...I'm comfortable with that also....teddy bear
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:18 PM CST
Daniel4021 wrote:
Your welcome Steph, yeah, I understand, I wrote a poem about the way I percieve how ladies are when they have been torn apart in past relationships.. I really feel for them.. they become so untrusting of other guys and scared to open up, because they fear it will happen all over again... but then it can happen to any of us, man or woman...

The question I think is, do we really want someone in our life bad enough to take that chance?




I dont feel I need anyone that bad......life is good just the way it is......cant imagine that someone could enhance my life anymore than it already is.....hug
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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 4:19 PM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
Having been alone longer than attached in life overall...I say I'm pretty content to be alone.

It's the little things I miss actually...

Calling at lunch to find out how your day's going....

Having someone to cuddle with when watching TV.

And...most important...trading massages...




Cant say that I miss any of those too much......but if I need a massage I will take a trip to the beauty salon......rolling eyes
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