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Im glad you finally figured that out....

oh no I always knew

Good so lets DANCE!!!!

I feel sorry for those who try to make others feel bad.

Don't let them rain on your sunshine

sunshine all over the place

negative people need to exist so that you could practice on them "speaking ur mind"

Negative people SUX !!

Somebody had to say it..

hmmmmmmmmm
good idea
practice makes perfect

good morning to you too


and your answer is?........................

I am working on perfection here

I do not know why so many people are negative. I seem to just keep running into them, but it is hard when they are one of your friends. I guess you just accept them the way they are or turn on them/

I had this friend since elementary school, her dad was in the army like my dad so we kept running into each other, but every time she never had nothing nice to say to me, nice dress but it would look better on me. Up until a few years ago we still kept in touch, she would also call me when she was in trouble and come and stay with me for awhile, still negative though, nothing I had was good enough, why do you live in that house in that area etc.


Enough about me, lets stay away from negative people.

i hate to be annoying

but seems to me some of the so called negative people are apparently so intimidating that when they are here they are the most popular people...

i dont understand why people will say this stuff about people but not to people

my question is not why so many negative people
but why so few stand in integrity when this ugly behavior happens?

i mean these people we speak of are little people in a box-
why not say to them they are behaving wrongly?

i get frustrated getting so many mails saying so and so is so unkind
yet they would never dream of posting to the person to chill out

oh but you are right on topic kitty01
I think that people that are negative all the time are very unhappy with themselves and there own life
so the only thing they can do is try to bring the happy people to their level
but kitty's never do that

well then everybody would know the truth.
so much easier to try and hide it

i just cant imagine being worried what a stranger thinks of my true feelings

never hide your sense of whats right i mean

why hide and whisper about it?
esp regarding ppl youll never meet?

they are negative because they'll never meet you
why not be willing to tell your truth without fear for the same reason?

but regardless-it takes all kinds and we will always be different
and i spose thats really a good thing after all

helps sort out those i might want to meet...

hmmmmmmmm
I am not gonna even wonder why anymore
just weed em out

Have you noticed you can have 10 people that will say something positive and it only takes 1 person to bring you down.

Why do we listen to the one negative person instead of the 10 positive people.

I vow to not let 1 person bring me down
it will have to be the whole house

very true, Kitty...i noticed that too...