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one of my sayings is

my true friends will make me cry

I feel bad my daughter dyed her hair yesterday and was excited to come and show me. She asked what I though of it and I told her the truth that I did not like it, the color was too blond. After she felt bad and just moped around.


Now I wish I had said I liked it, did not want to hurt her feeling.

i am sure her sadness won't last for long...i would never like my mom to lie me only to make me feel better! u did the right thing

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that is just part of being an honest person
you learn to take the good with the bad
look at it this way you didn't like it
shes your daughter sooooooooo you telling her the truth is a good thing we only want our children to look their best

kitties never do that



you should see my Simon

he's devouring a carcass on the deck right now




meeeOW

a lady that I have been subtly pursuing asked me a couple of weeks ago"...how do you like my hair?'

I said"...I don't!"


Back to the pursuit!!

ijot

sorry to hear your hearts been broken, but think of it this way. you being you, I'm sure you'll take the POSITIVE from it, and grow as the woman you are.....keep your chin up ,and be as cheerful as you always are, and before long, your heart will be as good as knew again.
then you can

their are lots of negative people. but there is also a sea of people brimming with optimism,like myself!!!!! i really dont know why people are negative, but we should try not to judge so harshly, because we do not know what happened in their lives to make them the way they are? so keep up the spirit in yourself and as a rule others around you will follow suit!!!!!!!!! dont worry be happy!!!!!!!!!

great

being not honest, and avoid giving your honest view point is what lead this world of HYPOCRITES

every one saying in public what they think is best and thiining the other way around

how do you succed to have true friends?

how will you be able to ask for an advice to a friend, knowing they will tell you want you want to hear instead of what it is best for you

any way

i am happy you learned yur lesson
from now on you wil;l not want to say your daugter something she does not want to hear

if she is telling you she wasnt to try a coctail of poison as to see how it feel, you will encourage her, instead of telling her not to do it


new things i lean

A lady in my building has been chatting with me when ever I am in the hall or at the vehicles
She Knocked on my door last week and said how do you like my hair My first response was what did ya do to it ......oh no I should have noticed the high lites and a change in hair style (short) but nope

I just want everyone to know that I am not as bad off as some seem to wonder.
It is so uplifting to see all the positive people that are out there and well I it

yep you missed out on the booty call

"Move then with new desires,
for where we used to build and love
is no-mans land, and only ghosts can live,
between two fires"

I'm sorry that you've got a broken heart kkitty!!

To change this negative attitude, a person must be willing to at least try to change, which is not a simple thing, after having spent a lifetime acting negatively!!

Men........

Trying a cocktail of poison is different than the color of her hair, I would never encourage her to do that, and I find you very negative, and will try and not let you get me down.

what is the difderence

we always are hypocrites and we say what the other want to hear, or we always give the best advice

but double standart will not lead us to any good port
it migh let us achive some inmidiat goal but nothing permanent in life

I will repeat this......You Are Getting On My Nerves.