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I am sure I will grab hold of trust again I believe, when the right person for me shows I can truely trust him. Then I will take the chance once again. Maybe I needed this like you said to feel again, maybe to awaken something missing.

Try shaving each other's privates....that's a wonderful trust building exercise.

amazing comment for some one not interested in building bridges of comunication

Once you get it all figured out though, life tosses you another chainsaw to juggle.


You wanna hang on to at least one for when and if you meet up with buddha




Q- what makes you think the cycle needs breaking or changing? Obvious answer is you do, but seriously folks... or is it you that needs breaking? is more to my point.

With a cut-throat razor of course................

Doesn't even Buddha talk about reincarnating, recycling until we can break out? Surely that happens in smaller circles too?

What person wants to spend a lifetime repeating mistakes. At least a new cycle of mistakes is preferable if only for the variety.

Sometimes our best learning curves are the hardest ones.

I guess it depends on what you exactly mean by trust. You do mean trust in the sense of the getting hurt or let down emotionally by the person you are dating right?

By nature I rarely trust anyone I date 100 percent or even 80 percent, and it has nothing to do with not trusting myself...so save it.

However, time is a good indicator for me to develop that trust. Over the course of time, I get to see how honest the person has been, how the person has reacted in certain situations, how patient the person is with herself and with life, and the list can go on.
For me, it is a combination of things they do, say, confront, embrace and manage things. Whether it's with me or with others.

With that said, I am very liberal in trusting somebody when I feel some type of connection....then the sexing begins, but I am picky and I just don't go around having sex on the first date...I have to know the person a bit so I feel comfortable with them....hence a little sense of trust...then the sexing comes like a relentlesstorm....

Thats a good one to describe it, life tossing you another chainsaw to juggle, that's what it feels like.

Thank you Stress. Straight to the point and accurate as usual. Hope you are still having a great time.

Time and being vigilant are good indicators of trust I feel too.

reincarnation ...


this is where buddha and I part ways (one of them anyway)... I'm from Missourri after all is said and done ..The Show Me state

the cycles are always there for the choosing, new ones or old ones... just choose dammit!



oh and dont listen to that OZzylike Stressman behind the curtain

Hi Tony

I've had this grocery cart dilema for a while and I always get without fail ... you know the one with the wonky front wheel that steers you into shelving no matter how hard you try to avoid it...

chainsaws seem more useful than fecked up grocery carts

Well I seem to have to deal with those to But the chainsaws come closer to some of my life's challenges

So many choices and so little time..........

actually I was speaking of metaphoric grocery carts, relationships that keep heading into shelving units and other carts

the chainsaw metaphor is more like a solution type metaphor as long as you get a handle on it of course.

My own beliefs would deviate from the Buddha's teachigs a bit too, but not too much on some things, like detachment and his live and let live tenets.

Reincarnation is a whole different subject..........

and there really is so little time, which makes passive agressive types so not worth the time. And here we are at page whatever in the cycle

I know what you mean

Now THAT was worth saying.........