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What did I DO NOW?

Good question.... but has more than one method of... filling in that void, or healing.I do something.... like paint, write... go for a walk....... sit out side and look at the sky, my garden.... listen to music and think. Sometimes it involves me looking at myself to see why I feel this way.

I wonder why I feel this way if my life is full..... For myself, I think it's because I want to be special to that one person... does not mean I am not loved, but would like to have that special person in my life.

And since I am neurotic... I give myself hell for feeling this way.

Wish I had an answer for you. Sorry.

Do you ever get that empty feeling like you are missing something or someone has taken a part of you that you may never regain?

Sounds a little depressing and I have started this thread many times, but have always deleted it.

If you feel this way, what do you think could make you feel whole again?

Zee

I meant that in a good way. With my friends, a good Butt Kicking is routinely dished out to anyone who starts getting down in the dumpers. It's an attitude adjustment!

I'm agreeing with you, silly.

Maybe it's not so much what someone has taken from me,but more like what I might have Lost or actually thrown away by not caring or not paying enough attention.
Something a Friend sent me a while ago:The Soul does not grow by addition, but by subtraction.

Might sound like a Contradiction,but think about it.

I used to, but then I woke up to life. "Nobody" is responsible for my feelings but me. They are mine, I create them, I own them.

I am whole and always have been except when I "choose" to be miserable, nobody else can make me that way.

"FEELINGS", are not right or wrong, they just are..

Know something else I've found, it's ok to be miserable sometimes. It's life, I want to live it, feel it, all of it. I can't feel good without feeling bad sometimes.

Know something else I've found, it's ok to be miserable sometimes. It's life, I want to live it, feel it, all of it. I can't feel good without feeling bad sometimes.

I am empty inside and I don't think....no, I know, I will never be happy again.

I can honestly say the best years are behind me!

dont be that way SHIP, we not only need to cheer ZEE up but we need to change your attitude too. the best is yet to come for you my friend

Yep, we need to hook up Ship w/that 36 year old Chinsese lady

Do you ever get that empty feeling like you are missing something or someone has taken a part of you that you may never regain?

Sounds a little depressing and I have started this thread many times, but have always deleted it.

If you feel this way, what do you think could make you feel whole again?

Zee

I can relate to your thread i lost my father my two of my brothers and my wife to divorce and all the jobs i`ve had that i really liked closed down all this in a few years, but i just got what might be a good paying job there might be a light at the end of this tunnel afer all