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Would you agree that they should at least have the 'balls' to tell that person what is going on... for e.g. If I were accused of being a liar (which I absolutely am not... I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)... do you think it is only fair that the person accusing me in the wrong should come clean and tell me what it is I was supposed to have lied about.. ...I don't care very much for this individual, but I don NOT take to kindly to being accused in the wrong..

What would ye guys do ??

It depends are you sure you where in the right ??Or is there a possibility you are in the wrong ??

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Welcome back how was work ??

that is how some people do things
they acuse you in front of people that do not klnow you but know them to give you a bad name

the do it because they are scare to dead that when people will know you better, they will loose their lidership among that group

I suppose if it was a close friend, I would be in search of some answers. But someone I don't care for much. I'd be more inclined to ignore it.

I'm with you Tina, feck em. Their opinion means nothing to me, makes absolutely no difference in my life. Why even care what they say or think?

Alex while that may be true in some cases , it assumes a lot

The way things are around here now, we all seem to be in the wrong.....

So who cares

Seems kind of pointless to accuse someone of lying then refuse to say how they lied. If thats the case, write him/her off. Not worth the trouble to worry about their opinion

no idea what this is all about to be honest... though I do know one thing for sure.. I am NOT a liar.. particularly these days.. no matter how hard it is for me sometimes I still tell the truth... (white lies are harmless, but still better to just be straight)

would it help if I lend you my balls

some people are unable to commuincate properly and will make accusations out of anger or misunderstanding, yet will never own, explain, or apologize. Thats the bait and you're sammy the tuna.

Keeping you on their 'hook' is their plan ... so get off the hook and ask yourself why you're needing to bite so hard on that stinky old dead bait.

If I am right in my thinking of which thread/person she is talking about , what she Allegedly lied about she also contradicted in the same thread , I suppose the only way we will know is if she posts the alleged lie (quoting the exact post and thread if indeed it was even on cs)

... Very true this person is certainly NOT worth giving a damn about.. not when this person has so unfairly accussed me in the wrong and did not even have to guts to clarify... ah well


Hiya

psium alatum corralatum

I think it means justice for all in Latin

or

melon "balls" salad


something like that

Lets make love not war

very true.. sweetie ... thats the end of it now as far as I am concerned...

albeit hard at times to ignore such claims made against us, the truth of the matter is those that knowand or love you will not believe what is being said and those that do not know you if they judge you so quickly'harshly are not worth responding to.

It hard not to respond but remember this adage
"Me thinkest he protest to much"

Aries01," I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)."

Damn I seriously doubt if i live to a hundred I'll never be able to make a claim like this.

No accusations began occuring before.. so he was just being opportunistic on that thread..

lPleeeeeassssse, no don't. Let sleeping dogs lie, don't kick a dead horse, all that good rot. Drop it!

I don't even know what this is about, just know that I don't want to know!

Darling I think it better we leave it at you previous post (the one before the one quoted)

I have in the past... but since I was baptized recently I have been REALLY trying not to tell even white lies.. when you think about it.. white lies are such an integral part of our life, and the vast majority of the time they don't even serve any purpose.. e.g... answering the phone by saying 'he is at a meeting' (when he is not)... saying 'he is not in the position to take ur call at the moment'... same effect.. no lie... or.. texting someone saying that you are doing something etc when you are too tired to meet up with them..... just text and say ur too tired and will meet up another time.. so many lies are actually completely unecessary when you think about it