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why do woman always wanna hurt me?? do they think its funny or something?? an example.. been talking to someone on the net from another forum for awhile..we set up a time yesterday to meet. i drove 30 miles to a lake well i got there she wasnt called her no answer just an answering machine waited for awhile called her again still got answering maching next thing you know it was 3:30 and we was gonna meet at noon. ive called her numerous times all i ever get is her answering machine she has yet to even call me but yet ive called her and all i ever get is the machine. i got home yesterday she imed me on yahoo saying she was sorry etc. that she had a bad headache that was making her feel sick to her stomache and that she really wanted to meet me yada yada.. i honestily think woman just love to walk all over me i think they think its cute.. they think its funny to see me hurt i guess.. i think i was meant to be alone and lonely.relationships,marrriages,girlfriends are just not for me.. im sick of it and its growing really old..every girl i ever try to date does this or something to me to cause drama or hurt towards me.. i wanna know why woman seem to hurta good guy like myself without even giving me a chance..so in closing my vent for the week.. im drawing the line been up all nite thinking relationgships arent for me .im just gonna give up on ever haveing one again

i give up on it all just gonna stay single and be lonely forever.some have good luck with them why some dont.... in order for for me to not give up its gonna take some very very special sweet woman and she will have alot of talking to do if she thinks she can change my mind..

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Hey guy! Get over it!! NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you considered that she may not be the person on the site and is using a fake pic ? I would not keep contact with this person , why are looking for a reason , she is the pits , accept that and you are free!! Best of luck , dont open yourself to hurt and quess what? You wont be hurt

sometimes I feel like I'm tied to the whipping post ...

Haaaaaaaa you would be so lucky!!

welcome to the internet dating

but yes, you are right

one of women pleasure is to play with guys feelings

You know... I seen quite a few of those here now, the "given ups".

Now, US is a pretty big country for a start, but still, there got to be some guys around your area in the same situation, right?

Why don’t you make your own CS meet up (male only this time), get together, get out, have a few, go bowling, I don’t know, but just do it.

There is nothing so attractive to a person than happy team of fellows enjoying their time. It lifts the spirits, and it adds attraction.

Team together here, gossip, mail photos from the last meet...

Now, you're in the cream and with that come confidence. With confidence comes what they are trying to define in another thread here "What is sexy in a man".

Go find your neighbours at CS - You can’t loose this one. I bet you your new Ford

that is one of the games females play

I'm so sorry. Been there-done that. A stupid airline pilot--I drove an hour and a half to meet him and gave myself an extra fifteen minutes just to make sure I had time to stop for gas and coffee on the way and wouldn't be late. I got there early and waited for an hour after our scheduled meeting time trying to call him and then drove home. When I got home I found out he had sent me an e-mail saying he had a headache and was tired and he hoped I hadn't left yet (sent about ten minutes after I would have had to leave to get there). It's not just women - its just rude people in general and they come in all genders.

Take a little rest from dating to relax and concentrate on making yourself happy and before you know it someone who looks like they are kind will pass by and make you change your mind about dating.

that is one of the games males play

internet dating makes it too easy to let the other person down because you have never met them... but the upside is you got to spend the afternoon at the lake

I'm tooooooo

Good answer!

yeah i did and it was a very beautifull day.. i even took my fishing ple and tackle with just in case..boy am i glad i did

Good job! A day spent fishing is never a wasted day!

Sorry to hear that , it must of been a knee in the nuts for you I don't understand why people do this, don't let women like that ruin you looking for someone though. Just make sure you don't put in all the effort next time.

if you can not withstand a little disappointment and throw in the towel at every hiccup you are better off moving on top of of mountain or into a cave.

"30 miles" like wow I do that one way daily for employment.

"very very sweet woman" thats a title only you'll be able to give her.

your a man right? you ever cut a piece of wood after measuring and it was to long or short? ever snap a bolt or strip a nut? ever participate in sports and not score or make a error? did you quit?? did you give up the project or sport?

relationships have hiccups hell sometimes you wallow in shit

if a easy road /relationship is what you seek... they don't exist until you've been in a realationship for many years everyones knows it gets easier with time to tolerate one another.

MY Gawd man, GROW A PAIR

The voice of reason and wisdom

ditto



Alan, you must be kidding? The lady does NOT know you, how could she possibly intended to hurt YOU? It's about her being rude and careless in general. There are plenty of ppl like that out there: men and women. Rudeness and lack of any respect towards others is NOT gender-specific.

By expecting "some very very special sweet woman" to do "alot of talking... if she thinks she can change your mind" you set yourself for a failure. What a fun way to spend a time on a first/2nd/etc dates!!!

Besides you might meet a person who was meant to be with you BUT she's been through the same experiences as you (since she is also into a web-dating) and will expects the same pep-talk from you! What are 2 of you going to do then? just go separate ways? take turns convincing each-other???

OR

forget all the creeps you two had met before, have fun and enjoy each other's company?