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I like to cast it out and let it drift, see what hits it myself...kinda combo of trolling and drifting along.....best part is just sitting back and watching the scenery.... catch and release seems to be the best method for me, havent found a real keeper yet....

There's the trick, just enjoy the fishing whether you catch anything or not!

the weather is lovely today...

Off topic here...sorta....I took a look at your profile & noticed that you tuna fish....seiner with a net or sport fish with a pole or long line like they do swordfish? (I used to work for Van Camp Sea Food so I'm curious...lol)

As for the topic, there's a few that have found someone on here, and there could actually be more, they've just kept it to themselves.

Me? Nope, met one person from here & it didn't go further than a weekend get together.

Some guys take it hook, line & sinker..

I met someone locally, but after one date.....she joined connecting singles!!

Yes people do hook up here... but I have found more girl friends than boy friends...lol

not complaining, well not much....


It does work, but I think you have to cast your net outside of the forums, we get to comfortable with each other and don't always recognise a good catch when we see one...LOL

I fish with 4 rods and reels .

That does help. I say all the time, the forums are not everyone's cup of tea. I like em, but everyone doesn't come on here, for whatever reason. Doesn't mean they wouldn't be interesting in person.

Do a local search, look and see if there's anyone remotely interesting. Since you're new, you can send a flower saying hey, I just joined and saw your profile, whatever. Don't be too forward on first contact, guys that send me their email or phone number right off the bat don't get anything but a thanks but no thanks.

I like to look at who's viewed me also, if there's someone that looks interesting close by, I'll drop em a line. May not hear anything, may get rejected but who cares, it's worth a try. Shoot, we're hear to meet people, if we ignore 90% of the population of the site, all we're doing is chit-chatting to pass the time. Not that there's anything wrong with that, if that's all ya want, but if you're serious about meeting someone, ya gotta get out there and look around!

why do you always get mad at me when i say she is not in the forusm

your advice is exactly that
to look out of the forums

double standart?

Oh another hint. After you've been on here longer and start getting photo ratings, you can look at who likes your pic, it tells ya everyone who gave you an 8 and up. If you see someone that you like, you can tell em thanks.

Took me a while to figure out some of these tricks. I don't do it all the time, it can get frustrating if you look too hard and it's the same ol' same ol' every day, but every once in a while I'll go trolling to see what's new. Every once in a while I'll spot a maybe!

Cause they're out looking for Charlie tuna.

TEN points lady.....