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Dont worry folks, my ex has been banned from the forums. Im so sick of drama and games I REALLY have no desire for a repeat of "kitten #1".
I was given some answers and now Id like to give the 3rd party involved a chance to tell her side.
It seems all my methods of contacting her in private have been blocked so Im making this one time only plea to get her attention.

Kitten,
Seems we were doomed from the start. Thats too bad, the brief real moments we did have I really enjoyed. Unfortunatly they were sabotaged and things were not meant to be.
I have no ill feelings toward you, its far too easy to blame it all on my ex wife. Im not expecting to reconcile, get to know you or try again with you, I only want to hear your side of the story. As you, or someone pretending to be you, told me on several occasions "there are 2 sides to every story..." well Id like to hear your side.
I have no means of contacting you since, Ive been told, you have me blocked not only here but on my e-mails as well. so its up to you to contact me. Block me afterwards if you would like. Contact me here, personal e-mails or call. Please do not try to "...create a new e-mail or account .." and contact me. I wont be going that route again. You have many means to contact me and ways to get them if you dont have them anymore. I hope you will use them so I can hear your side of this. If not than I do hope you have a nice life. I always liked that lady I first met.

I may bump this a few times in the next few days just to be sure she sees it.

You have been hurt to much ! Can you not leave well enough alone jmo

Just drop it, how long are you gonna beat this dead horse.

We all want answers after a split, but sometimes there just are none. If the person has blocked contact with you, it means they don't want to explain, or can't. Sometimes we just have to reconcile what we know in our own minds, learn the lesson and move on.

Oh huney, the hurt is past, Id just like to hear a little more truth is all. Give someone else a chance to tell thier side.
Dont worry its over and behind me now, whether she replies or not...

Ok , but all the more reasons to move on. If she has continually lied to you , what would make her tell the truth now , conscience ? I doubt she has one

Im movin' on cutie, lets' let this thread ride and if she sees it fine, if it falls behind and she doesnt see it or just doesnt respond, fine too....

Im not going to comment on your X DOD because I don't know her. But these things never come off good in the forums. They need to be kept private somehow. I hope things heal sooner rather then later.

I have been where you are. What I found that worked for "me", was "Let Go, Let God"...

Agree with what everyone has said. Just let it go.

Excessive baggage.

Sometimes there are no answers....I agree with the above... walk away from that dead horse... beating it is just frustrating

If it was really behind you, then you would not be in search of her side of the story. Your curiosity is driving you crazy as to who she is or what happened for sure. You know what they say, curiosity kills the cat and it will kill you too. Kill your personality, kill the chance for you to shine again to your full potential if you dont just acknowelge that for whatever reason she did this to you and put you through the ringer, and you need to just accept the fact of what's been done and that you will NEVER really know the truth or her real side to her story anyway. Even if she contacted you, she's lied countless times, how can you now, expect any truth from her at all? Let this go and move on!

I do apreciate each and every one of you. PLEASE do not reply to this thread any more. id delet it if I could. just let it die. It was a bad idea.
Thank you, all.