When do you say that you have kid(s)?

Barnagie
Warsaw, Mazowieckie Poland

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:21 AM CST

I wonder. I always do it at the first meet and I don't know if it is good idea. I don't tell story about my son because I don't find it very interesting for others.

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:27 AM CST

I do it way before first meet. I have them like it or lump it.

There is no choice when it comes to them. They come first and always will.

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:28 AM CST

Barnagie wrote:

I wonder. I always do it at the first meet and I don't know if it is good idea. I don't tell story about my son because I don't find it very interesting for others.

It doesn't have to be interesting its reality.

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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:28 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

I do it way before first meet. I have them like it or lump it.

There is no choice when it comes to them. They come first and always will.

Hmmm, thats going to cut in to quality sex time with you

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gongman
Malaga, Andalucia Spain

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:30 AM CST

I brought up five kids but never fathered a child.........it was part of the package.

But people need to know.Straight from the beginning.

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:30 AM CST

BnaturAl wrote:

Hmmm, thats going to cut in to quality sex time with you

No they are all in their teens now.

where theres a will there is a way.

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:30 AM CST

gongman wrote:

I brought up five kids but never fathered a child.........it was part of the package.But people need to know.Straight from the beginning.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:32 AM CST

I always mention that I hva three children.. almost straight away..

So that if they want to step away from the vehicle they have the chance do that, sooner rather than later.

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Barnagie
Warsaw, Mazowieckie Poland

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:32 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

It doesn't have to be interesting its reality.

Yes, I know but some person can speak only about their kids. What they do, what they eat, etc. Rather boring.
First meet I mean also first contact.

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dillydally
Scotland, Scotland UK

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:33 AM CST

everyone i meet finds out about my boy , who cares if people find it boring or not ,your a parent so its interesting for you and other parents .
i love hearing about other parents with there kids ,its the best normality in life we have

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joshtaal
Palmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:33 AM CST

The kids are the greatest part of my charm!

If any woman cant accept them then it just aint meant to be!

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:35 AM CST

Barnagie wrote:

Yes, I know but some person can speak only about their kids. What they do, what they eat, etc. Rather boring.
First meet I mean also first contact.

I really dont care if they find it boring personally. I am proud of them, they are part of me.

I have never met anyone thats finds it boring either actually the opposite they usually want to meet them and that a big

to me.

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joshtaal
Palmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:37 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

I really dont care if they find it boring personally. I am proud of them, they are part of me. I have never met anyone thats finds it boring either actually the opposite they usually want to meet them and that a big to me.

I agree

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Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:41 AM CST

hi, just butting in...

i went out with guys who have a kid or kids (no, they're not married nor they have girlfriends, don't ask me why i know

) and they told me way before the first meet and it's pretty admirable for guys not to hide that and i agree that single parents should tell those that they're going out with firsthand rather than keeping this fact "for a while".

And yeah, if the woman/man don't like it, both parties would be able to save each other's time.

IMO

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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:43 AM CST

I never hid my child, but I also didn't introduce him to a parade of surrogates until I had a reasonable incling they would be significant people in my life first.... that didn't work out too well either..

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:43 AM CST

Cary0608 wrote:

hi, just butting in...

i went out with guys who have a kid or kids (no, they're not married nor they have girlfriends, don't ask me why i know ) and they told me way before the first meet and it's pretty admirable for guys not to hide that and i agree that single parents should tell those that they're going out with firsthand rather than keeping this fact "for a while".

And yeah, if the woman/man don't like it, both parties would be able to save each other's time.

IMO

Exactly there are a few single dad's on here also that stand proud of their kids and I think it's frign admirable.

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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:46 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

Exactly there are a few single dad's on here also that stand proud of their kids and I think it's frign admirable.

I also did it when being a male single parent was somewhat taboo ... all the better for it though.

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gongman
Malaga, Andalucia Spain

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:46 AM CST

And if the kids accept you ........................................

Then you knowyou are accepted

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:47 AM CST

BnaturAl wrote:

I also did it when being a male single parent was somewhat taboo ... all the better for it though.

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sxc666
Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 6:47 AM CST

gongman wrote:

And if the kids accept you ........................................

Then you know you are accepted

That is sooo true it would make it very hard to maintain a relationship if the kids were not accepting it.

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