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I started a long term ralationship at a young age 17 to be axact we bought a house togather and even had brought a wonderful son into the world . we were togather for 7 years and we even talk about getting married . one week after that discusstion my world fell apart . she came to me and said she wanted to move out . after lots of tears , quastions , and confustion I did . then came lawers and such wich wasnt so bad . my lawyer said this was the easiest sepperation he has ever delt with . he then asked me why we are both doing this ? I simply did not have an awnser . I ended up with money for my house and shared custody of my son . she met someone shortly after this and is now getting married . her and i get along great and hardly ever have any disagreament . I still wonder the what if and think about her every day . I also wonder if she does the same .

I have no clue on this one ..

but i think she must surely remember u even now ..

Sorry for what happened, Tuna.

She met someone else before your breakup.

I have similar set ups with a couple of my exs. One of my exs is my best friend and has been ever since we split up 13 years ago. I just think of him in a platonic best way though I can't say how your ex feels about you as I'm not in her head

Platonic "best friend" way I meant to type

why do u think so.

you can sit and think about it for days and turns to years but it is not worth it..

***thinking of the x



sorry, that happens everytime I am thinking of the x

Thinking about my X only makes me sad. I wanted to marry her, yet I could see where our future would be if we married and I called it quits after 3 years.

Haven't had a serious relationship since.

I think so too. Happened too quick. She was perfectly content to live together till he brought up marriage. She had other things in mind, woulda happened anyways, but that just sped things up.

You're better off knowing tuna, at least you got an amicable break up, and your son outta the deal.

You'll be ok, just don't go rushing into another one till this one's outta your head though.

Motherly advice 5 cents.

yep, unfortunitely tuna she was seeking " I think the grass is greener with this guy," and before too long she will be calling you wanting a shoulder to cry on when he gets rid of her or cheats on her, SHE WILL come crawling back sooner rather than later it might last a year or two at tops. then if you take her back then in a couple of years she will do it again and this WILL continue until she is either used and abused beyond beleive or when she gets in her 30's. Women are always curious about what could be or should be, because most of them want EVERYTHING...... Then when reality set s in then they complain about why their fairytale life was to much to ask for.. Then they come back to the guy that was always there for them, but now he is bitter at women for be done that way many times the woman is left bitter and alone with her cat and make up

But in all Fairness guys are getting to be the same way...

Thanks Bev.

ya but she brought do you think she was feeling guilty .

Yep, sounds like. Sorry Charlie, but you're way better off.

Did you try to talk to her?Is she happier now?

Or in her heart.

i charge more alabama

sweetie tuna-
get out of the psychic business
none of us know what she is thinking-you will never know-she may not even know-
sometimes when we couple young we outgrow the situation-since their was no hatred shown maybe thats all that happened

get on with it!
analysis is paralysis


you cant have room for another until she is out of your heart-
but yeah some time learning to live alone until we become content that way-is a big key to creating another successful.

that was a successful and valuable relationship-now rest and heal.

Very true