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One other thing , they fear even telling some things to their buddies, cause it might look unmanly or a failure.
When women mess up we talk to our man, or a girlfriend about our failures etc.

Same here.. I dont know any that don't.

Personally I think they are just lying and telling us about their 'Dream woman'

sometimes a guy will shy away because he doesn't want to be the one until the next better thing that comes along. I have dated one or two women whoes parents mixed their genes correctly and it really amazed me how many times they were ask out while I was standing there..... makes a guy wonder.....

Zee

honey- you could have a masters in neuroscience, psychology,psychiatry, neurology, huntin' and fishin'ology, stretching and scratchingology,boobs and beerology, and you'ld still be no nearer to understanding men- just like the rest of us

But you know, since I can't do anything about my looks I really do feel it's the man's responsibility to live with the way I look.

I understand it can be tough at times, but is it really that hard when the girl (me!) replies: "Sorry, my man here is the best for me and besides he can give me an orgasm in 3 minutes, so why don't ya just go sit back with ya buddies again or somethin' pumpkin?"

I mean, would it still be intimidating if the woman knew how to turn the guys down?

I think it's your own self esteem problem, thinking you are not the best man for her...

WOW where are you girls at cause all the women I know don't tell us shit WE HAVE TO GUESS WHAT THE HELL THE GIRLS ARE EVEN THINKING.........

Invite me. I'm not easily intimidated. Hell, I'll let you pay...

hahaha well said..

What’s up with all the stereotyping ???

I for one want a woman that is going to speak her mind and tell me what she wants , and I don’t think it’s worth going out with some one unless both parties are prepared to be open and honest with each other

I know! SO true!

My friends lured me (yes, LURED me!) into becoming a fan of baseball, claiming I would understand the world of men better.

I'm more in the dark than ever!!

Well, in many ways, I think, it's actually harder for very attractive women. So much chaff to separate from the wheat. You might get more offers, but then how many of those offers are for the right reasons? It's kind of like being rich or famous...you always wonder how much of its "me" and how much more extraneous factors.

I sometimes wonder if it wouldn't be cool if the very attractive could be a bit less attractive until the relationship has advanced a bit (excluding to some degree artificial physical attraction), and then one's full beauty (or wealth) would be gradually revealed. Probably not very practical, but seems like a decent fiction idea (I know, it's been done in many variations before...but I'm not sure the beauty thing has been plumbed quite like that. Hmmm..)

Jeff

Oo yeaaahh

baseball??? i don't thin men even understand the attraction??

I agree with that totally......

They should have steered you toward football. No one likes baseball....

Thats not stereotyping when It's been my experience and my girlfriends experience. Of course I know not all men are like this but sure seems like a majority are.

I don't get that.

I'm like:

"Honey, I feel fat, tell me I'm pretty and kiss me"

or

"Sweetheart, I want you to take me on a date on friday and give me a nice present, like this pair of shoes I have left a picture of with the size number and adress of the store on the table - and when I act surprised about it, you don't say something stupid like "But you told me to buy them" or something!"

or how about

"When you look down other women's cleavages it makes me want to kill you and leave you in a dusin different states. Could you please stop doing that when I'm around?"


--- What is there NOT to understand?

I was already into that. The only thing I learned was that American men drink beer that tastes so bad we have laws against it in my native country.