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Ok, im new to dating since I was married for 17 yrs and now divorced. My problem is this. Women want to take it slow and get to know me but dont want any attachments. Im good with that. I guess the problem is when you are trying to get to know someone, that means conversation, dating, having fun with the woman so why do I feel like im being a bother. Especially after sex. Its like they change. The confution is this. Do they just want the sex and nothing else or am I being to personal and wanting to get to know them but to fast. Im confused. Im not a BSer and believe in being honest. Im no mind reader and cant know what is on their mind unless they say so.

For myself, going slow and getting to know each other does not involve sex. My past experiences have taught me that sex totally changes the dynamics of a relationship/friendship. This is why I am single and most likely staying that way.
I believe you are not BS-ing. You are confused and possibly either mis-reading or being misled. I don't have any clear cut advice, just some common ground.

I am going slow cause I have picked the wrong ones too many times, and want it too be right the next time. Thats what most women mean also when they say that.

well I think you are putting to much into it, I've tryed a few different ways and I'm still single, I don't care anymore ifit happens it does if not tats that...

Does this mean you have an eyeball on someone??? Guess you don't want to run off and get married and support me for the rest of my life then..

Old saying.... "Do not look a gift horse in the mouth"...

Well hell, I KNOW you don't.....

I can't support anyone, I can barely do that on my income! No I have no eyeball on anyone Yet!!

I mean I can barely take care of myself

I'm cheap!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thats good, do you come with a Warranty!!

It means slowing down and getting to know each other.

Not assuming we are going to be packing our shit up and moving in with each other, or walking down the isle in a couple of weeks. Or telling me how I should be acting or how I should be talking in the forums after you have spoken to me a few times.

Slow down get to know each other , meet build a friendship and let nature takes it's course.

bang on

5 year, 100,000 miles, bumper to bumper......

I mean Like full money back if starts to act up!! Only 5 years, Darn!!!

OH, that.. Yes, a full money back warranty, you act up & I request my money back.. Also, I have learned the "extended" warranties are an advantage..

Do not forget, I am old & senile. 5 years may be plenty of time..

I don't know what it means cause I've never told anyone that. Don't think you can control how fast or slow you get to know someone. I just like to do it slow or fast, however it comes. Ok, that sounds dirty, I don't mean it that way. What I mean is, just get to know them as it naturally happens, however it's meant to be.