Posted: Jul 25, 2008, 12:37 PM CST
Baddabing66 wrote:On this site and other sites, I notice photos of people kissing other people or acting kind of weird or been intamate with someone else can turn off other people, encluding me. I mean why do people do this?
There are some that may think that to show pics with their children/grandchildren, grown up or otherwise, evokes a "family man" kinda perception?? That is all very well but, just as with reams and reams of text to wade through, its perhaps more relevant for a later time.
What is the point of knowing every facet of someone's life and their raison d'etre before even getting to know them?? Surely, a lot of the fun is the journey? The getting to know someone??
I am quite puzzled by some of the pics such as:
Half-clad to virtually naked..... why do I want to know about a person's body before I have any knowledge of his mind? Smacks of vanity and I don't pander to egos...!!
Flashing the six-pack or tattoos.... sure, I don't wanna know about them as a person, I wanna go out with a tattoo??!!
Only ONE pic and its way too dark or the subject is wearing shades....??
I am at a loss sometimes, considering it would be best, surely, to show oneself in the most favourable light possible, as to the thought process that goes into making the decision that that is the best pic to put up!! If that thought process ever gets off the starting-blocks, of course...!!