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Sees ball...........


Kicks it...........


My problem has been.....


Being attracted to very randy naughty women...... Some maybe say thats not a problem thats natural.... the case has tended to be that they usually live maybe an hours drive odd away... so its not always easy to <cough> take advantage of the randiness..... being ultra randy they (by they I mean the last 2.......) have randy urges most/all/a lot of the time.... for instance the one 256.7 miles away (yeah I done 8 months worth of driving so kinda know the distance off by heart would entertain other chappys (( )) On the weekends when I couldn't make it, which after 8 months of intense ermmmmmm "stuff" is a bit of a kick in the gary glitter (shitter)


Now....

Having taken a couple of years out of the "action" so to speak, its kinda hard to contemplate getting back on the horse.... conundrum indeedy!

He was good-looking and laid-back... I zee (you may have noted from my profile that I am not a big fan of being "laid-back")

So what didn't appeal to you about him during your courtship?

Dear Dr. Jeff:

I am writing on behalf of a friend, who shall remain nameless. He states he is a normal macho, staunch heterosexual male. I have seen him in a tool belt, and he certainly outwardly appears as such. However, he has a wig collection that would be the envy of even the queen of drag queens.

What would be your diagnosis? Is he subconsciously trying to convey a message regarding an alternate sexual orientation? Could it be a subconscious attempt to avoid committment by appearing clinically insane? Or, perhaps merely an addiction to synthetic fiber? I would greatly appreciate your input.

Nothing honestly, I was too young to think about it. I simply lost interest in him after I got married. Same as other one.

Sounds like 'Klinger' fom the T.V. show Mash.

This is indeed a difficult case, lkto... I would have to say, based on the information you provided, in my pseudo-professional opinion, that this is one sick motherf*ck*r indeed.

Be back later. I have to go to an IM.

Come now, Arlene, you can surely be a bit more forthcoming with the good doctor (do I need to bring you a stiff drink there on that couch?)? Think back...there must've been something that repelled you from him. To be frank, he sounds like one helluva guy (except for the "laid-back" bit, of course...I must confess that gives me cold chills).

[quote=Ambrose2007]He was good-looking and laid-back... I zee (you may have noted from my profile that I am not a big fan of being "laid-back")

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big fan here

Tufty, you clearly are suffering from Randy Attraction Syndrome...

Oy vey, let's be serious, here. Would you say that being attracted to women of this sort might mitigate powerfully against a long-term or stable relationship?

Tell me more, my dear Tufty!

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Thank you, Jampet. Is there something else you feel you may wish to share with us concerning your relationships??

he was and still is one hell of a guy. I just can't my mind around 'forever'. I just just too sensible for me at the time.

Then by the time I wanted someone sensible (ten years later) I met crazy!!!!

well I was right on the every line of that little skittlett of yours glide and swerve,

See it's like this when I am in a relationship I end up carrying the other person, after a midlife overload burn out and rolling around in the gutter I picked me up a phsycology book and a bible and pulled myself back up and started to realize whats going on indeed, the other is I analize everyone I talk to and what ever presents it'self to me.....

Nice skittlett

Dear Dr. Jeff:

Thank you so much for your prompt reply. I suspected something was not "quite right" with this individual but, of course, wanted to avoid any conclusions before seeking the opinion of an expert.

In an effort to gain more insight toward understanding my friend's affliction, I tried to locate your diagnosis in The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, but was unable to find anything on "sick motherf*ck*er." Where did you say you received your credentials?

Sincerely,
Linda

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[quote=jampet]
.<<<<<<< (couldn't find the chicken emoticon, so went for the nearest thing!!)

I will make this easier on you Dr. Ambrose. I grew up (or not ) with VERY strict parents and was always being old what to do and not to do. I never liked rules and I still don't. Therefore I look at marriage as one hell of a pile of rules that I cannot conform to becfause I am still and always will be rebellious.

R.A.S. Aside
I guess Its more a fear of circumstances repeating, I'm sure there are plenty of....... Randies about that do just stick to getting their jollys in one place, a couple of years away from everything and I just can NOT bring myself to chase, and seeing as "the chase" is a pretty large chunk of the "game" of dating that places me in an awkward situation

Arlene, at the beginning of this thread, the quoted text from HE'S SCARED, SHE'S SCARED gave a long list of reasons why people are *not* unable to sustain relationships...

"If you've fallen in love with too many inappropriate people, it's not only because you have a big heart. If you've never been able to sustain a relationship for more than a year, it's not because of fluctuatiing biorhythms or transiting planets," etc.

I'm wondering if "rebelliousness" might be felicitously added to that list - viz., "If you cannot love with someone, it's not because you're a rebel"??