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I lost my husband a few months ago.
Still recovering. Still trying to understand.
Still trying to forgive. Forgive WHO ? Forgive HIM... GOD.
Why did HE do that to me ? WHY DID HE PUNISH ME ?
Couldn't HE wait ? Of course, HE COULD... But HE DIDN'T !

I know, I came to the site a little too early. Not ready yet for the Forum's "big battles".
Thank you ALL for your answers to my first posting. I learnt something from each of you.
Good luck, FRIENDS !

PS. I'll be back someday. Promise.

take care it will take time but loads of people here for you should you need us

be patient with yourself....time my friend~~time.

im so sorry. we are all here for you if need us.

everyone here has been there for me, just like one big family! so, come back, it does help!!

I know all to well how you feel Adga1 I lost my husband not long ago myself and it hurts.


He Only Takes the Best



God saw she/he was getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So He put His arms around her/him
and whispered, "Come with Me".

With tear-filled eyes we watched her/him
suffer and fade away.
Although we loved her/him deeply,
We could not make her/him stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
hard-working hands put to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.

...Nancy Rose Bouchard

Well hun You don't hate anyone, death is a natural thing it will happen to all of us. Just thank GOD for the time he did blessed you with your husband. He allowed your husband to marry you for a while and just remember the good times you had with him, and now GOD has bless you with good memories.........

It's ok hon, go ahead and be as mad at God as you need to be right now, he can take it. When you're ready, he'll still be your best friend and be there for you. Scream, yell, cry, cuss him out if you need to. I promise you won't get struck by lightning. It'll be ok once you get it all out.