Posted: Jul 29, 2008, 10:51 AM CST
I truly believe it’s about opening your heart and put yourself in situations where you get to meet people of interest.
I wouldn’t say that I have given up, but I just don’t look. I think that if you have “In Need Of Relationship NOW” painted all over your face you will scare people off. They need to get to know you first.
But I don’t fidget around either. If I see a man that captures my eye and interest I seek him out and ask him do get a cup of coffee with me. I do think that some women tend to just sit around and not do anything themselves. But in my experience men are just these big buffoons who wouldn’t get a hint if it got up and punched them in the face. So smiling and looking cute could just result in the men thinking, “Wow, she had too much caffeine or what?” and going on their own business.
Love is about taking chances and sometimes it doesn’t pay off. It sucks when it doesn’t, but then we wouldn’t enjoy it as much when it did.