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i think the lower bck is a cool place to have them... but im not sure my lizard would of looked good there..

This looks like a good safe thread to participate in.......

naaa indy, you can get into trouble wherever you go...you dont stand a chance

i know indy it must be hard to be you...but we love you anyways

I did tatoo some get just the standerd ta some get there own I did my tatoo and I know that nobody has the same one and thats all I would do or tatoo custom

At twenty something gets tat of brave eagle on her lower back. At sixty something old woman has buzzard on her back with his head in her butt...

i have tattoos..wish that didnt...no big deal,,,you live with it..when you get them....fine,,really cool..then you get older...your choice.. man or woman..

Have an appt. this week for another, too. Nope - not on my lower back.

Generalizing a bit don't you think ???? It's just a fashion no more no less, how that makes anyone a slut is beyond and very judgemental ! As for ALL girls ya wrong i don't

have one !!!

I have a tattoo but it is on my ankle I would not get a tramp stamp.

Wow, get outta the stone age there bud! It's there because they find it desirable and wanted to put it there. Not for the enjoyment of the person who may see it during adult activities. Lose your attitude, your self-righteousness, and quit judging people for who they appear to be and you'll be happier and less irritating to others...

well said!

Ohh tattoos!

I thought it was going to be a discussion on whether you prefered your po-tattoes boiled or roasted................ I'll get me coat!

I am not so much for a tatoo on the back, but a small tatoo on the ankle is hot.

birds with tattoos look sexy

why in the hell does it say slut. Maybe if you could explain why you would think in that way.


So a girl has a tattoo on her lower back and she is a Slut. Get the fark out of here.

I am divided on this issue.......

When I walk deep into the woods, to what I think is unspoiled wilderness, and come upon a tree with someones carved initials, or an interesting rock outcrop, or cave, spray painted with someones "mark", it seems to take away a bit of the moment of personal discovery....... And so it is, the finest, and most beautiful natural creation on earth, a womans body, presents itself when tatooed, the impression that someone else had been there......... and if not for that, that somone elses impression of what is "cool" or "in" was made that prompted the desire for skin art......regardless, in true reality, someone else had been there... at the very least the tatooist.........a sort of taboo for some males....

Why a woman would want to have a permanent mark on her skin, while refusing to wear the same clothing outfit twice never adds up to me.... there are temporary tats........equally fashionable.....What woman would want to wear the same outfit, or tatoo for that matter everyday?.....poses an interesting question......

Personally I dont really care what anyone does....the essence of their character is of paramount importance to me..... I really dont think that tatoos represent any type of promiscuous behavior on the part of women.........

In life whats in style is as fleeting as the days changes in the weather.....We all have a suseptibility to follow fashion trends.....The problem with tatoos is that they came into style, yet never go away, and unfortunately, similiar to other body marrings, can have unwanted impressionable side affects on others.....either in public, or behind closed doors......

If we truly wish to be accepted for who we are, do we really want to stack the deck either in favor of or against ourselves from the onset....
Any type of deviation from a norm lends itself to judgementalism, whether we like it or not....though that depends upon the person to whom our presence is presented.... personally, I prefer to initiate a response from someone else with as few a hints as possible as to my personal preferences either now or in my past........Its simply not anyone elses business, that is, unless I choose to disclose it.....sometimes being judged silently is worse than being outwardly chastised......

In the final analysis, we should all just live and let live, and realize that personal decisions, both good and bad, should not fall prey to judgementalism............accepting people for who they are is the only way to go, regardless of personal hangups..... JMO

I have a friend who said she should get a tattoo on her lower back so men know what to do, maybe that way they'd get it right. Just her opinion....don't shoot the messenger!!!!!


I have two tats and love them!!! If I was skinnier I would definitely have one on my lower back...I think they look sexier than hell!!!

i have one on my lower back!! go get you one sexy!!!!!

do it! i have 7 tats!!!!!