roseofsharon wrote:Okay, so I am in contact with this guy (from another site) and we are getting on well, it would seem. We are corresponding and exchange telephone numbers. He seems quite keen and 'phones me, we chat, have a laugh and tentatively arrange to meet the following weekend for a coffee or maybe lunch.
The next day I mail him to say it was nice to speak with him and I say I will be in touch in the week to find out where we are meeting, unless he beats me to it. Later that week, I try to call but just get the voicemail, I send an e-mail.... nothing!! Of course, he didn't beat me to it and evidently had no intention. All week he has made sure he is uncontactable. What is that all about?
Needless to say, we never did meet and he made sure I couldn't get hold of him. The voicemail was automated so for all I know he could've given me a number other than his own.
So far, all I have had is Players..... I mean, we got on famously, or so I thought....
This keeps happening... why? I am clearly doing something wrong. I am just myself, no pretence, I don't play games, I am polite, well-mannered and I think I have a sense of humour, so....
There must be something I am doing, or NOT doing.... or simply something I am not aware of...?? Its becoming rather tiresome to say the least.....
Any ideas? Why always/only Players?? Why am I a magnet for these types?? No platitudes, please!!! I would rather constructive criticism........ much more helpful. If everyone else is getting dates...??
Thanks.
I don't get it, Got am idea.. call me for an hour sometime and maybe then I could tell you what the problem is?