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inverphil
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:09 AM CST
Is mental abuse more damaging than physical abuse.





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Sommerauer71
Hallein , Salzburg Austria
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:12 AM CST
Each abuse is damaging in it's own way.

Mental scars will result as a symptom of physical abuse.

Usually the two are intertwined.

In the UK, abuse is abuse, mental, physical, financial.







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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:14 AM CST
Sommerauer71 wrote:
Each abuse is damaging in it's own way.

Mental scars will result as a symptom of physical abuse.

Usually the two are intertwined.

In the UK, abuse is abuse, mental, physical, financial.
and emotional*

Yep I agree with all of that ^ Abuse is Abuse.

They can all hurt as badly as each other.. (depending on the degree in which it hurts you obviously)





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:15 AM CST
Oh.. duh!.. well that would be mental wouldn't it really. D'oh!





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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:18 AM CST
Sommerauer71 wrote:
Each abuse is damaging in it's own way.

Mental scars will result as a symptom of physical abuse.

Usually the two are intertwined.

In the UK, abuse is abuse, mental, physical, financial.
thumbs up What I was going to say, only better worded.

Abuse of any kind is damaging to someone who doesn't have the strength to get away from it, kids especially. Anyone who hurts a child should be drawn and quartered. Grown people who allow themselves to be abused are another story. Been there, done that, got rid of the tshirt.





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:19 AM CST
alabamabebe wrote:
What I was going to say, only better worded.

Abuse of any kind is damaging to someone who doesn't have the strength to get away from it, kids especially. Anyone who hurts a child should be drawn and quartered. Grown people who allow themselves to be abused are another story. Been there, done that, got rid of the tshirt.



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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:19 AM CST
technically its all mental abuse. Physical abuse heals usually, what's left however is the mental trauma and that sometimes takes much longer.





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:20 AM CST
inverphil wrote:
Is mental abuse more damaging than physical abuse.


My husband was all the ways you can be abusive to me..

but to be honest.. as sad and pathetic as it sounds.. most of the time I would rather he just hit me than mentally tormented me.





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:20 AM CST
BnaturAl wrote:
technically its all mental abuse. Physical abuse heals usually, what's left however is the mental trauma and that sometimes takes much longer.


Yeah I do agree with that. The mental stuff lasts and lingers.. much longer.





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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:21 AM CST

Sommerauer71 wrote:
Each abuse is damaging in it's own way.

Mental scars will result as a symptom of physical abuse.

Usually the two are intertwined.

In the UK, abuse is abuse, mental, physical, financial.





alabamabebe wrote:
What I was going to say, only better worded.

Abuse of any kind is damaging to someone who doesn't have the strength to get away from it, kids especially. Anyone who hurts a child should be drawn and quartered. Grown people who allow themselves to be abused are another story. Been there, done that, got rid of the tshirt.
thumbs up I have nothing more to add really.





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somechick
Somewhere,Ohio, Ohio USA
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:21 AM CST
They both are very damaging .

How are you today inverphil?wave





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inverphil
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:22 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
Oh.. duh!.. well that would be mental wouldn't it really.

If you are ill and continiue to recieve abuse about the past and want to forget same whats the borderline?





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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:24 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
My husband was all the ways you can be abusive to me..

but to be honest.. as sad and pathetic as it sounds.. most of the time I would rather he just hit me than mentally tormented me.


can relate to that one hun, in the middle of one of his rants about how, fat,ugly,usless,stupid I was I would just be saying in my mind 'just hit me and get it over with'





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Sommerauer71
Hallein , Salzburg Austria
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:25 AM CST
inverphil wrote:
If you are ill and continiue to recieve abuse about the past and want to forget same whats the borderline?


Borderline for what Phil?

On forgetting?

I am sorry, I do not understand the question!







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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:25 AM CST
inverphil wrote:
If you are ill and continiue to recieve abuse about the past and want to forget same whats the borderline?


Sorry could you elaborate on this please?





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:25 AM CST
vonney wrote:
can relate to that one hun, in the middle of one of his rants about how, fat,ugly,usless,stupid I was I would just be saying in my mind 'just hit me and get it over with'


YUP!!


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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:30 AM CST
My husband used to talk to me in jumpy sentences..

while throwing handfuls of his dinner at me at the same time..

You ::throw::

are ::throw:::

a stupid :::throw::

F**kin ::throw::

bitch ::throw:::

(or whatever)


and I used to sit there shaking and snivelling..


funny.. (kind of) when I think of it all now.. Because it seems like a lifetime ago.. or someone else's life.

Not mine!

Traa-laaaaaaa joy cartwheel joy





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:30 AM CST
(thank foook!) wine





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DizzyDi
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:32 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
(thank foook!)


Hi Claire

we can all say that to the end of it teddy bear





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 7:34 AM CST
DizzyDi wrote:
Hi Claire

we can all say that to the end of it

Yep! applause happy place hug





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