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I came across a lovely profile. The guy is looking for me, except that he is looking also for a relaxed woman. I think i'm calm but not relax...or i'm relaxed but not calm? Or is it the moment i'm going through right now? Ah, explain me, what is the difference to you!

And, have you ever came across a profile that you gave up because of one item?Not body description, but the what he is and what he is looking for? A small "mistake" or demand...how can it turn you on/off?

Yeap! But then again, don't take me as standard, I invented pickyness

Or at least I am perfecting the definition

Hi there Cristina

Here is my definition.

Calm is a state of mind. Approaching things calmly, rationally. Some people are calm, some people are highly strung and everything is a drama. I like calm people, yet they can be fun, naturally rather than trying to cover up what they are really about.

Relaxed is physical, yet relaxing can be taking a walk, watching something funny on tv, taking a bath.

Yes, I have, I have pressed the back button on may a profile, because of one word, or something that he writes in his profile, the headline attracts me, when I see a person that writes 'u' instead of 'you' I will immediately press the back button.

You are the standard sweetie...you're getting old

Cristina.Don't be afraid to ask specific questions.
Ex:Hey pal your profile is kinda interesting,are those photos recent?

btw:No more coffee for you Cristina.You seem neither calm or relaxed in your textual content.
Herbal tea and a back rub 4 u .

And loving it

Wow!! Tough standards!!

Yikes.We have an inventor online.
Very well. E=Mc 2.

Hi there.

Hello

I do, I cannot bear it when people abbreviate languages.

Some men will lose my interest if they have facial hair.

I c what u mean
U must get into the text message language

Good definition i think, then i'm a calm person, so see? I think he meant calm then instead of relaxed, cause on the other hand he wants an independent woman, so relaxing is not a regular basis!

Thanks for the advice and no more coffee then

Hang on Cristina, perhaps, do not think he meant something else when he has said what he wants.

Maybe, he knows exactly what he wants and meant what he said, do not try to interpret what he has said. Give the guy a chance and let him make up his own mind whether you are what he is looking for.

As for text message language?

No thanks, I cannot for the life in me understand what possess a person to go to the number '2' when they mean 'to' and so on and so on.

Hi back! Everyone has different things that attract them so I can understand the facial hair thing. The abbreviations; thats something else. Pretty standard in computerize...like lol. Just the person saving some typing. Especially if their a pick and scratch typist.

Oh, stop being so darn picky and give poor man a chance

There's no more space in the "eternally picky-getting nuttin" club

Hon, like i said, i came across his profile. Lets see if he notices that i've viewed him...and then say something special. If not, oh well, i'll stand still too...

Relaxed=chill and expressive in a cool way
Calm=not so emotional and expressive, boring

I don't waste my time going thru profiles looking for women who live a galaxy away from me...later on that...

But if they are highly educated?

PS: You are forgiving my spelling mistakes aren't you Sommer?

That's how you end up like me

Elementary logyc....he notices, and ...nada! You might wait quite a while there


Speed up the process, kick his butt with an interesting line ...he might move then