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tufty: Absence of the ability to talk about anything and everything would be dull.... It's great to talk random with someone, haha actually some days its just nice to talk , so I don't think I would cope too well with someone without an opinion on most things (as long as they're not zealots on any one thing....) variety IS the spice.....

Absence of tactile behaviour I would be baffled by as well, I love all the touchy feely stuff and not just in the joy pit, the lil hugs and stuff that make you glow are vitalOver the top...... Giggling like a braying donkey at every slight funny would be a tad unnerving....

tufty: Absence of the ability to talk about anything and everything would be dull.... It's great to talk random with someone, haha actually some days its just nice to talk , so I don't think I would cope too well with someone without an opinion on most things (as long as they're not zealots on any one thing....) variety IS the spice.....

Absence of tactile behaviour I would be baffled by as well, I love all the touchy feely stuff and not just in the joy pit, the lil hugs and stuff that make you glow are vitalOver the top...... Giggling like a braying donkey at every slight funny would be a tad unnerving....

trish123: how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?

HJFinAZ: "Heart", she has to have heart....

HJFinAZ: "Heart", she has to have heart....

gingerb: Clever minds and wit do it for me every time.

Dealbreakers would be insensitivity and shouting or ignorant behaviour. Can't be around that at all.

gingerb: How do you define heart HJ?

gingerb: How do you define heart HJ?

darlynda: lets face it ......its physical attraction that hooks you, then after that you get to know all the other qualities that either make you fallin love or walk the other way.

trish123: Oh yes, the tactile stuff - I love tactile I hug people quite a lot and for lots of reasons - I dont think I could go for anybody who wouldnt understand or even be threatened by that - Im just a huggy sorta person and thats that

and yep..... some days its just nice to talk

Claayer: The heart is a muscular organ in all vertebrates responsible for pumping blood through the blood vessels by repeated, rhythmic contractions, or a similar structure in annelids, mollusks, and arthropods. Oh... HJ. ::sits back down:::

BnaturAl: turned on - without sex ...
have to think about that, but sex is usually on my mind so ...

EnSilencio: You said it again. I rest my case

darlynda: lets face it ......its physical attraction that hooks you, then after that you get to know all the other qualities that either make you fallin love or walk the other way.

tufty: Doesn't even have to be over the top huggy, little touches as you pass each other, a hand on the shoulder, holding hands when your out and about, hair ruffles, cheeky bum pinches.... frig I miss all that little bits that make the "big bits" so much more enjoyable!!!

Claayer: The heart is a muscular organ in all vertebrates responsible for pumping blood through the blood vessels by repeated, rhythmic contractions, or a similar structure in annelids, mollusks, and arthropods. Oh... HJ. ::sits back down:::

darlynda: lets face it ......its physical attraction that hooks you, then after that you get to know all the other qualities that either make you fallin love or walk the other way.

tufty: Doesn't even have to be over the top huggy, little touches as you pass each other, a hand on the shoulder, holding hands when your out and about, hair ruffles, cheeky bum pinches.... frig I miss all that little bits that make the "big bits" so much more enjoyable!!!

trish123: how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?