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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:25 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

HJFinAZ: And you find something wrong with "rhythmic contractions"???

Mirror, mirror, on the wall.....

hahaha no... infact..

nevermind.

I am avoiding the mirror at the moment..

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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:25 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

tufty: Doesn't even have to be over the top huggy, little touches as you pass each other, a hand on the shoulder, holding hands when your out and about, hair ruffles, cheeky bum pinches.... frig I miss all that little bits that make the "big bits" so much more enjoyable!!!

Yeahh.. I miss all those little things..

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darlynda tazewell, Tennessee USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:29 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

HJFinAZ: Not always......

you mean to tell me that you would walk up to a total stranger(woman) and ask her out if she was butt ugly and weighed 400 pounds and had bad body oder.

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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:29 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

Claayer: hahaha I am avoiding the mirror at the moment..

Would you care to describe how your avoidance is benefiting you?

HHMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Indyfella indianapolis, Indiana USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:29 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

darlynda: you mean to tell me that you would walk up to a total stranger(woman) and ask her out if she was butt ugly and weighed 400 pounds and had bad body oder.

those butt ugly ones try harder in bed though

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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:29 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

SirenLydia: Trish, if your being turned on......then there is only one thing on your mind......

SEXNow if you ask what it is about them that you
find attractive or endearing well thats
something else.

I dont know really..... I dont think I could ever be turned on by the handsomest of men if I detected a streak of unkindness in them so this leads me to wonder if its a physical or a mental driving force - I think that for myself, its more mental than physical.......... once they turn me on mentally Im jelly in their hands

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Indyfella indianapolis, Indiana USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:31 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

On a serious note......he's right

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darlynda tazewell, Tennessee USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:31 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

Indyfella: those butt ugly ones try harder in bed though

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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:31 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

darlynda: you mean to tell me that you would walk up to a total stranger(woman) and ask her out if she was butt ugly and weighed 400 pounds and had bad body oder.

I am saying that I have known a few that were very lovely human beings and I was attracted to them long before I found out how they looked..

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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:31 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

They spoke with "heart"..

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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:32 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

Indyfella: those butt ugly ones try harder in bed though

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roseofsharon Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:33 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

roseofsharon: I don't have a long list of expectations, just the basics really.....

Sense of humour.
A kind heart.
Intellect.
Respectful.

Sorry, if I may add to that........

A mental agility somewhat over and above that of a soup spoon. Even 'only just' would suffice...!!

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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:33 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

Pptrixibell: I like the physical attraction.....you just know you like each other and flirt like mad, the lust and the excitement.....never happens now

I do love that and you describe it so well too

but one of the thing that I like about this online stuff is that you can take longer about these things..... possibly, this may lead to more lasting relationships though I dont exactly see much evidence for this

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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:36 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

gingerb: Clever minds and wit do it for me every time.

Dealbreakers would be insensitivity and shouting or ignorant behaviour. Can't be around that at all.

Me too Ginger - a clever mind melts my strongest resolves every time -well, almost

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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:39 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

Indyfella: those butt ugly ones try harder in bed though

Some guys have all the luck hey

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Indyfella indianapolis, Indiana USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:39 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

trish123: Some guys have all the luck hey

I'm not going near that line....

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darlynda tazewell, Tennessee USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:42 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

HJFinAZ: They spoke with "heart"..

i am soooo sorry,

forgive me,

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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:43 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

HJFinAZ: I am saying that I have known a few that were very lovely human beings and I was attracted to them long before I found out how they looked..

Thats an interesting point too HJ - I wonder what would happen if we all hid our profile piccies for a week or two - apart from it really spooking any newbies

how much of this attraction stuff is really based on the lure of physical appearances - and I am not referring to the boobies in Kitty's thread earlier

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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:44 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

Indyfella: I'm not going near that line....

me either - lets leave it at that hey

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Indyfella indianapolis, Indiana USA

Mon Aug 11, 2008 5:45 PM CST : Essential qualities in another person.......

trish123: me either - lets leave it at that hey

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