Essential qualities in another person.......

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HJFinAZ: Suggestion... Next time you walk into a cafe and see some guy you are NOT attracted to sitting alone, ask him if he is waiting for someone or if you could join him.


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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
HJFinAZ: Suggestion... Next time you walk into a cafe and see some guy you are NOT attracted to sitting alone, ask him if he is waiting for someone or if you could join him. You may find a wonderful friend..



HJ..... are you suggesting that I get into the habit of picking up strange men wow laugh

I think my Britishness is coming out here - I once worked in a cafe for a short time and did get speaking to different people and it was a good experience - but the thought of going up to a stranger and asking if I could join them is enough to put me in an early grave rolling on the floor laughing

I know nobody can ever have enough friends but I am a bit of a hermit and treasure the friends I already have - haha, the curtain twitchers in my village would have a field day if I started bringing home different 'friends' every time I visited a cafe grin
gingerb Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland
HJFinAZ: "You" are not a freak by any means. IMO, it is to bad many others do not know and get in to DeMello...


I've led an extraordinary existence so far. Maybe that helped. Listening to him was like falling in love with what I knew already but sometimes forget. I loved the reminder. Thank you.......
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
trish123: how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?



A good sense of humour is a must for me....taking life too seriously can give one an ulcer...but also having the ability to take life serious when the situation calls for it...honesty, compassion, empathy, strength, passion, understanding and great open and honest communication.



Great thread Trish.....wink wave hug teddybear hug bouquet
gingerb Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland
trish123: Out of respect and regard for you opinions Ginger, I just sat through the whole of the vid and whilst I loved his comittment to the message he was trying to convey, I just couldnt get my head round some of the concepts - sorry.......... I did try.................


It's ok Trish. I find that the same message to different people doesn't always work at varying times of their life or experience. What best suits you will come another way when you are ready. I guess I was just ready to hear him at precisely this time. It's all good.
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