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I don't have a webcam, but have done picture share on IM, I make it clear up front that I don't want to see that stuff, if he does I'm outta there. Bye bye ta ta. He should respect my wishes, if he can't in that area he won't in others either.

Here's the way I see it. My problem with this I think most men don't understand. All your men bits look pretty much the same, slightly different colors and sizes is all, but basically the same thing. And to be honest-I know some women will disagree-but to me just looking at it is not real attractive. I don't want to see what you've got, I want to see what you can do with it, with me, not by yourself, and that happens farther on down the line, not while we're still in virtual land. It's just real degrading to have a man doing that with a picture, it reduces the woman to a piece of porn. JMO again.

You've been talkin to someone for a while seems to be a decent guy, so you start talkin on msn all going

well and start talkin using cam, THEN after a few days spolis it all but asking you to "get your bits out!"

Guys please give your comments too

Amazing how little this happens to men though!

It does..but you have to pay for it.....

Using the cam? lol

You've been talkin to someone for a while seems to be a decent guy, so you start talkin on msn all going

well and start talkin using cam, THEN after a few days spolis it all but asking you to "get your bits out!"

Guys please give your comments too

I'm sorry to read that you've been through this negative experience, but unfortunately you'll find all sorts of people on the internet, just like in real life!

To be honest, I've heard worse than that, so up to a point, you can count yourself lucky!!

hi paul just a pity because it can put people off of these kinds of sites, and there are some great people here

Just ignore those people that are not up to your standards!!

There's no need to leave the site because of them, just filter them out!!

hi paul just a pity because it can put people off of these kinds of sites, and there are some great people here

Thanks Morgan....

I don't have a webcam, but have done picture share on IM, I make it clear up front that I don't want to see that stuff, if he does I'm outta there. Bye bye ta ta. He should respect my wishes, if he can't in that area he won't in others either.

Here's the way I see it. My problem with this I think most men don't understand. All your men bits look pretty much the same, slightly different colors and sizes is all, but basically the same thing. And to be honest-I know some women will disagree-but to me just looking at it is not real attractive. I don't want to see what you've got, I want to see what you can do with it, with me, not by yourself, and that happens farther on down the line, not while we're still in virtual land. It's just real degrading to have a man doing that with a picture, it reduces the woman to a piece of porn. JMO again.

Yes, it has happened to me.

Big fat 'not interested' and they disappear as quick as they came.

big fat what??

Yes, it has happened to me.

Big fat 'not interested' and they disappear as quick as they came.